I was hanging out with one person ( a considered best friend) who I had a falling through with. unfourtunatly I had introduced her to my other friends so by not talking to her I found I didnt talk to my other friends save 2 you see our friendship held the group together. now I sit feeling lonley and regreting changing my life for the better and the worst as it has turned out to be I have never been at a loss for friends I make friends with ease at one point I had 13 best friends but latley I havent been able to make new friends what does a person do when they dont have any friends??
2006-12-09 11:23:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm sorry to hear you're lonely. There are some things you can do.
You can make up with your friend.
You did not say if they don't want to talk to you. If they do you should reconnect with them.
You can join clubs or go to areas where people do the things you like. Ex: golfing, tennis, library, museum, professional associations etc.
2006-12-09 11:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always put all my eggs in one basket when it comes to friends. I have a lot of people I talk to and I am casually chatty with at work, and like that, but there's always only one at a time that I would fall on a sword for, so to speak. So I think I feel your pain. Unfortunately, I have never cracked the code on having tons of close close friends. I am not sure anyone does.
I'd advise just play it cool. Act interested. But don't act needy or desperate. That'll drive potential friends off.
Best of luck.
2006-12-09 11:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time will pass as it did in mine and you will have friends again, realize this. But realize also, that if the number of true friends that you have are only one or two ,, then you are much better off than those that have many fair weather friends.
Realize for now the value of getting to know yourself while alone so much! You now have more time to find out who you are and what you want in life, . Follow your interests and educate yourself in what you like. Join others who are interested in the same thing and there you will find your friends!
2006-12-09 11:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by motohype 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i faced the same problem at the beginning of the year too. Pardon me if I sound harsh. You got to move on with life. There are so many people out there whom you can make friends with. So take the first step to make new friends through work or school. It's possible!
2006-12-09 11:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you at the instant are not a foul person. It in simple terms appears like your character isn't one that is totally social or trusting. My husband and that i are comparable. I incredibly have 4 acquaintances i've got had for 8-14 years, yet in spite of them there is plenty i would not confide. My mom and sister I confide very almost something in, and my husband is the only person i'm completely open with. My husband is much extra delinquent and distrusting. He has no acquaintances. There are some adult men that he hangs out with on occasion, yet in simple terms because of the fact they have the comparable pursuits. The relationships are in simple terms functional; there is not any emotional connection. He would not even confide plenty in his family individuals. i'm actually the only person he trusts and confides in. that is tough having a character like that. specifically because of the fact all your eggs are in one basket, in an effort to speak. in case you have been to loose that one person, your finished help device is lost. i'm uncertain if there is something you're able to do to "restoration" this undertaking. while it incorporates concerns of the middle, i don't think of you may stress your self to alter. yet in simple terms comprehend which you at the instant are not by myself, and you're maximum never a foul person.
2016-12-13 05:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to analyze themselves and find out why they are not reaching out to others to create friendships. Is there something you are regretting doing? Make amends or correct it. Then, just get on with your life :)
2006-12-09 11:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by aronlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play video games or call up one of your old friends to hang out
2006-12-09 11:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Toxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once told me, "you can't choose your friends, friends evolve." I completely agree. So just be yourself, strike up conversations with people, and invite them to do the things you like to do. They'll come in time.
2006-12-09 11:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by kodiak2777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus is your friend. but as far as friends go A friendship is never made it is developed.if you have one good friend you have more than most
2006-12-09 11:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get ice cream, a big screen tv, and a phone. spend ur time watchin the tv, eatin the ice cream, and prank callin people.
2006-12-09 11:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by i luv 2 eat at taco bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋