We met on personals, and drinking was a big part, he had 3 dui's, I didn't have so much as a parking ticket, but I drove his vehicle and ended up with 2 dui's the last being an accident which totaled his truck, we were both cited, and now a year later both being sober have been talking about trying it out again, do you think it could work? By our im's and phone calls we miss each other, and we are only 5 blocks away.
2006-12-09 11:22:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it could work but it depends on what bonded you two together in the first place. But the drinking and driving has to stop.
2006-12-09 11:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are only talking about his drinking problem,his DUI's and how YOU ended up with citations.Then later state "both sober". Were you also drinking when you were cited? And weren't you drinking?He's only five blocks away why you don't visit each other? Let me start by saying that you should not get into any relationship under the influence. If he is a drinker, or under the influence, you both are not making rational decisions like that. If you are willing to give this guy another chance then you both need to work on the relationship one day at a time not looking at his flaws or the past. You must forgive him and yourself for the past before you make this step ,otherwise you will keep bringing it up and you can't move forward like that. Pray and ask GOD to show you if this is for you or not.PRAYER CHANGES THINGS! If you really love him and he loves you then work on that. LOVE is the most excellent way. Wait for GOD to answer you, do not read into anything, everything has its own time. You have been apart one year for a reason. Take time to work on yourself, let him make the moves, because men should be men and lead.If he's for you he will come back.Don't look for things to be the same way they were, you don't want that, remember that's how you both got here. I pray GOD gives you, your hearts desire.HE promised.
2006-12-09 11:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see why not...you both just need to continue to stay sober. It can go either way, once you get back together you may be tempted to go back to drinking or you guys could encourage eachother to stay sober...either way, remember that drinking is probably what caused your relationship to end in the first place! Good for you guys for getting sober...that's not always easy! Good luck!
2006-12-09 11:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, my brother and my cousin were perfect angels when they were on their own, but as soon as the two of them got together, it's like the devil had free rein. Some combinations are just death. Keep him as a friend maybe.
2006-12-09 11:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If both of you have quit drinking...after all, you both know the pitfalls, and want to rekindle your relationship,I'd say go for it.
2006-12-09 11:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say try and wor on it but no more stupid thing liek dui's! just talk about it and see what he says and make sure u stay sober !
2006-12-09 11:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by justsomeone 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you live 5 blocks away, haven't seen each other for a year ?
don't think you're missing each other...
2006-12-09 11:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm...sorry but you both need to move on to more positive things instead of returning to the past. Move on girl...
2006-12-09 11:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. You have nothing to lose.
2006-12-09 11:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋