I need some advice to help me get out of my chell and come alive. It is not like I dont know who I am or anything like that. I just get really shy around people and I dont know how to be myself and act. I can be myself around poeple I have known for a while but thats different. I am trying to make lots of new friends.
2006-12-09 11:16:38 · 6 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How did you get into a chell?
What's a chell?
2006-12-09 11:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act like someone that you aren't. Figure out your own identity and embrace that. Don't change to attract other people to you because you can only keep an act going for so long. You will lose more than yourself if you try to be someone else.
Don't be a second rate idea of someone else, but just be you. There is ONLY one you on this whole world. We are all counting on you to be yourself. :-)
Don't worrry about being shy. I used to be like that, but I'm not really like that anymore. I figured out that if someone doesn't like me that it isn't a reflection on me, but it is a reflection on who they are and what they like. Remember that. You are just fine the way that you are. Some people react better around smaller crowds. That's okay. Stay strong. You will make it.
Amanda
2006-12-09 11:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem when I was younger. But you shouldn't worry! People are just people, some may even be as afraid of u as u are of them. Right now I have lots of friends, and u know why? Cause I don't care what they think about the way I am. I'm just me! If they like that, good; if not, I don't care.
2006-12-09 11:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's a chell?
2006-12-09 11:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to bars or clubs or gatherings where you do not know anyone and reinvent yourself. If you are scared someone will not like you it does not matter you probably will never see them again and they dont know you so who cares right? Ive done it it works
2006-12-09 11:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chell?
Do you mean SHELL?
One thing you could do is TAKE A FREAKING ENGLISH CLASS.
2006-12-09 11:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋