what's more correct,saying "you mean a lot to me" or saying "you mean a lot for me"?

Answer 1

"You mean a lot to me", is correct.
"You mean a lot for me", is incorrect".

Answer 2

"to me" is giving the other person power.

"for me" is selfish.

I appreciate the question here, because when someone is saying "I only want you as a friend", they usually come up with the whole "you mean alot to me". Maybe this person should just be stating what is truly in their mind: "I am selfish and I decide how and why you are useful."

So under this analyzation, if someone actually ment alot to someone, then they would not be typasting or controlling the other person.

Answer 3

You Mean Alot To Me

Answer 4

You mean a lot to me.

"to" is a preposition that means - relation, tendency, attachment, or connection

"for" is a preposition that means- purpose, in spite of, on behalf of, or representing

Answer 5

you mean a lot to me

Answer 6

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Answer 7

The first expression is correct.