help! i am a 15 year old girl and a soph in high school, and my best friend is dating a great guy. they have been having sex without condoms, and now she is pregnant. WHOA!! what in the world do i do!?!?
2006-12-09 10:41:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The best thing you can do for your friend is be supportive. Talk to her and let her know that you are still her friend no matter what happens and you are there for her when she needs you. She will have tough days ahead of her and she will definitely need someone to lean on when those days come around where people talk about her or tease her due to her pregnancy. Things happen and people make mistakes. The best way to grow is to learn from them. I hope your friend will try to keep her baby or give her baby up for adoption (rather than the alternatives). My wife and I have been married for 10 years and we are not able to have children. We are hoping to adopt a baby one day. I included a website where your friend could go and get some answers. I hope and pray everything works out for your friend and am very proud of you for sticking it out with her.
2006-12-09 11:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by jjodom1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They knew that they could get pregnant. You as her friend should just be supportive of her in whatever she decides to do. She and her boyfriend knew what could happen when having unprotected sex. They need to figure it out now. Although I believe 15 is too young to be having unprotected sex, she now has to deal with reality. Tell her whatever she does, don't quit school. Having a baby doesn't have to ruine her life. And if she has this baby then make sure as soon as she has it, she get's on birth control. My younger cousin got pregnant at 14 years old, had a beautiful baby girl, less than a year later at 15 she got pregnant again. By the time she was 16 she had two daughters and a boyfriend on drugs. She still doesn't even have a driving permit, and at 17 not even a 9th grade compleetion. Tell her to follow her heart, but make sure for her childs sake she finishes what she's started! And get a part time job after school and on weekends asap.
2006-12-09 10:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Camerons Mama07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure her parents know. That is the first thing. Be there for her to talk to. It will mean a lot to her. Help her through this hard time in her life by just being there with her, letting her know you will help her out. She made a mistake by not using condoms. That mistake does not have to be the end of the world. If she has the baby and keeps it, help her out by babysitting so she can have a fun night out every once in a while.
2006-12-09 10:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by aloneforeverinmyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sam, Well, moms and dads have got to realize whilst their youngsters are in obstacle. You would begin along with your mother and ask her to speak for your buddy's mother first. If this isn't anything you would do then what approximately an grownup at institution who would intrude or perhaps and grownup relation? Your buddy is fairly fortunate to have you ever on her aspect. Stick along with her in this when you consider that she fairly demands you. But you're each very younger and can want support and recommendation from any individual with authority and enjoy in this. Tell your buddy this has occurred to many, many different women and despite the fact that it sort of feels like the top of the arena, it's so much obviously no longer, with you as her buddy you'll each discover the braveness to stand this in a mature method. You have already performed that by means of approaching right here and soliciting for support this manner. Good Luck. Ella xxx .
2016-09-03 09:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. But she did use condoms and it was her first time. She should tell someone older to try and get medications or something if she doesn't want the baby. Let me know if you get any good responses about localized medication. I need help too
2006-12-09 10:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this isn't necessarily your problem, so you don't need to freak out. But, as a good friend, you will want to worry about your friend. Just be there for her. If her and her bf don't work out, she will be super hormaonal.
You should go with her on walks and things so she doesn'tgain too much weight.
2006-12-09 10:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do, except offer them support. The important thing is to keep in mind is do what is right for the baby. That is the most important thing and it will solve many questions you may have.
2006-12-09 10:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a clinic, they can offer her counselling and advice on parenting , if this is the road she chooses, be supportive and a friend.
2006-12-09 10:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by sunflower932002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your friend (ahem- cough - you) should talk to someone - anyone you feel comfortable with or call a pregancy hotline. Planned Parenthood can help as well.
2006-12-09 13:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by glowe126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she'll get an abortion? If no ask her if she'll put up the kid for adoption. If she says no to both just help her take care of her kid once her kid is born, and tell her to go get consoling on parenting.
Hope I helped.
2006-12-09 10:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋