say if you had 4 friends and one of them is your best friend and the others were just friends. You guys are doing a secret santa--where you draw the names of your friends and whatever name you got, secretivily you would get them a chrstmas gift. Then say one of those friends told your best friend (secretivily) that you (as in yourself) shouldn't be in it. Then the next day all of your friends including your best friend, but NOT you went to the mall. When they were there, they decided to do the secret santa without you and bought there gifts right, then and there so would not be in it! would YOU be mad?
2006-12-09 10:37:48 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda(: 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
CUZ THAT HAPPENED TO ME AND I AM MAD!!!
2006-12-09 10:41:55 · update #1
Yeah, sounds like you need to find some new friends. You don't need to associate with people like that. You'd be better off without bitchiness like that in your life & if they were really your friends they would not treat you like that. You have every right to be mad, if I was you I'd ditch them and find some REAL friends.
2006-12-09 10:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by QueenofSummertime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds kind of shady. If you really want these people in your life, including your "best friend," let them know how you feel and ask them why they did this. Otherwise just let it go and meet new people. I don't think I could be friends with this group of people. The holidays are a time for forgiveness and supposed to represent the best in people I suggest dropping them QUICKLY!!! Good luck!
2006-12-09 10:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by supa_wmn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pick some new friends for christmas. You're "best friend" is a back-stabbing sell out. She turned her back on you once, to follow the 'click', I would never trust her again, IF you talk to her anymore. Find a new crowd.
2006-12-09 10:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Id be mad & Id ask them why they did that. You werent concluded in the shopping & Id be angry as well. But, I still would ask them why they felt that I shouldnt be in it. Id demand an explanation 'cuz right now, you have no idea of what you did to make them not wanna conclude you in it.
2006-12-09 11:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really horrible that they did that!ur best friend should of stood up for. u and ur (supposley best friend) should of went to the mall without the other friends! I think u should ask ur best friend what is going on what happend.But I think u should choose ur friends more closely!
2006-12-09 12:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, **** THEM HATERS. =]
I think, first you find out what's up with them, right?
And if they aren't giving you a solid straight up answer, go to your best friend.
There might be a reason why they're doing this.
I had a friend, who all her best friends sent a hate letter to. They all were like, "You're annoying." "You're a conceited *****." Yadigg?
Then I guess they sorted it out, and she found out why all her friends were mad.
Hope this helped
2006-12-09 11:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Leilani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should, your best friend is probably insecure because she doesn't wanna lose her other friends. Most of the time, friendship fall outs are from jealousy and fumed by insecurity
2006-12-09 10:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really mean. They sure dont sound like friends to me, I'd have dropped them like a hat. I'd be more than mad-I'd be even more than furious.
2006-12-09 11:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is mean and rude. Yes, I would be mad.
2006-12-09 13:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my feelings would be hurt, but i guess then that's one less christmas gift i have to buy!
2006-12-09 10:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by nkettler03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋