me and my husband went out for dinner we enjoyed our night
as he is a doctor he works 6 days a week from 7 am to 9 pm
i was so lonely without him so i was looking forward for this saturday..
today was the day instead of going out early in the morning as planned we went at three o clock coz he wanted to watch a lame show
well okay then we had dinner and while coming home he compared my dad with that flushed away movie's fat cartoon i felt bad even though he was joking....i told him before no jokes on my dad............he thinks i get mad at nothing
then he said that
"i act" infront of my sister in law but the fact is i dnt!
he says i am not real when she comes
what do i do??
i just cook food for her thats it
i am a really simple person and i dnt know how to act infront of people
and from no where he said i know u luv daniel craig and leonardo decaprio ans i am sorry that i dnt have blonde hair and blue eyeS!!
and i am like waht??they r just good looking why is he mad at me?
2006-12-09 10:29:06 · 22 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what did i do??i luv him amd i dnt know what the problem here is...no rude answers plz
2006-12-09 10:29:50 · update #1
It sounds like all his time spent working and you missing him has made him insecure about your feelings for him. I'd try to get him to take soem time off so you all can spend a week together. Plus he's probably tired from working all the time.
2006-12-09 10:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you to be feisty with him. Why else would he start things with you? Maybe he is looking for you to be a little dominating to him since he is in charge at work. Go get you a black leather outfit and some high heels and a little whip and when he comes home from work, be waiting for him. Say you have been a bad boy and it is time for your punishment. I bet you'll be surprised by his enjoyment.
Or you could just tell him that when he talks about your dad it hurts your feelings and that you are just trying to be nice to his sister when she comes over and that you are tired of him picking fights with you. What does he want from you?
Trust me try the first option. He will love it. Then when he starts with you again tell him that if he doesn't stop picking at you that you won't play with him like that anymore. He'll stop picking at you or you will enjoy it and spank him harder next time.
2006-12-09 10:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never been married so i have no idea what goes on in marriages and stuff, but it sounds to me like he's pushing you away for some reason, all i can think of is find out what reasons it might be...and you already know what the worse case scenario is....
but before even going there, talk to him about...just bring it up but not while being angry...you know when both of you are in a good mood, just bring it up in a low key tone...hope that's any help
2006-12-09 10:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Chia Pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is working long hours, so what's wrong with watching a "lame" show to relax? Try find a hobby and do something for yourself. Give the man some time to himself. A marriage is all about compromises.
2006-12-09 10:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this sounds like just he is just trying to switch the fact that he screwed up to you. most men are kinda bad at that so you must forgive him for that. now as far as him making a comment about your father ,now by him saying whatever he said he meant it but to him is wasn't trying to make it like he don't like him or talking about him, he is confused because he don't understand y u took whatever he said so hard, but he needs to understand that you do not like jokes about your father and you mean it. So now you have to just ask him would he like it if you made jokes about somebody he really care about. what if you compared somebody to a fat cat. And as far as his sister he is just crazy i am quite sure you just act hospitable and some men confuse that with acting so dismiss that! just talk to him tell him how u feel and kiss and make up! this is a simple argument that will be forgotten tomorrow!
2006-12-09 10:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by kmiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are kind of all over the place with this..but from what I can tell it sounds like a really little fight. You should hear me and my husband! This is probably something that will blow over. I don't see what him making fun of your dad has to do with his sister or daniel craig....tell him you don't want him to make fun of your family..it's not cool..he should know thats off limits.
2006-12-09 10:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Farah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...sounds like there are some serious communication and security issues. The bottom line is that you will have to set aside some time to do some serious talking (without arguing). Without, things will likely spiral out of control. Communication is essential. It is the single most important part of your marriage.
2006-12-09 10:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ib think he is just tired and trys to go and do things with you because he have to do them but my best guess he is just super tired and when someone is very tied sometimes they can't think straight I sugest that he take a good long vacation Good luck!!!
2006-12-09 10:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 01:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he is jealous.are has an ego problem.I think he need to come back to earth and live life as a man.Just because he is a doctor,doesn't mean he is god.and have everything his way. Its not your problem,its his problem.
2006-12-09 10:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by George K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋