Everyone has heard the expression "having your cake and eating it to". But how can a man live with himself when he's doing this? How can he spend time with his mistress and then go home and act as if nothing is going on? How could he alternate spending the night with his wife one night and then his mistress? Wouldn't he feel guilty...and how would he live with the guilt everyday?
2006-12-09 10:08:00 · 13 answers · asked by torn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They do it everyday. No guilt, no empathy for the women, just pure selfish greed to have it all & give up nothing.
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2006-12-09 10:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can seperate the two. Suppose a man has a wife who hates sex. He will get a mistress to handle the sex part and the wife has the rest. Therefore he has everything he needs. If he resents his wife, the resentment will overcome the guilt.
2006-12-09 10:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a mistress live with herself knowing that she is tearing a family apart and destroying trust? Have respect for yourself and respect for the people you are hurting and walk away before things get worse. If he hasn't left her by now he never will and your relationship will just end up being poison to you both.
2006-12-11 02:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just wonder if wife and mistress know about each other. THEN he wouldn't be liking the taste of that cake in divorce court.
2006-12-09 10:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i do not think he feels guilty, and if he does he hides it well, or blames it on something else. he can always justify it, and blame it on his wife, so he doesn't have to take responsibility for what he is doing. he may live by a different belief system, and a different set of morals than most people do. he knows exacly what he is doing, and just doesn't care, after all he is not the one getting hurt by this, at first.
2006-12-09 10:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds very complicated, he sounds like a jerk to do that
I would tell both the wife and mistress exactly what was happening, then they could and maybe would both choose to leave. I would feel ok about it though. If he tells em and he is worth being with, maybe that could work, maybe impossible.
2006-12-09 10:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men that do that aren't human enough to feel guilty over it, so they live with it quite easily.
2006-12-09 10:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men who do this have no conscious so they feel no guilt.
They're scum and eventually the wife will find out and hopefully if she has any self-respect will leave his butt.
2006-12-09 10:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilt goes away quickly.
2006-12-09 10:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He must have some mental issues.
2006-12-09 10:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋