my ex-friend is talking stuff about me on her website. she must be scared or something cuz she wont say it to my face. she is really bugging me. she always stares at me in school. i just want to beat her up but i kno that is the wrong thing to do. what should i do or say to her.
2006-12-09 10:01:21 · 21 answers · asked by blondie 4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Melanie is right. You should tell her that although you can't be friends anymore, you want to just drop it all and forget about each other. Each of you can go on with your lives.
You are right about not beating her up. That can get you locked up! You need to learn appropriate ways to deal with your anger, and realize that what someone says only hurts you if you let it. Otherwise, it's just their opinion so let it go.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-09 10:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, after a while you'll see she woudnt even bother you no matter what she does! What would actualyy happen is that she will b bothered more cuz she's probably just trying to get your attention or something and when she realizes that she isn't having them ,she'll stop eventually so, no dont beat her up just dont give her any attention!
2006-12-09 18:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by ANGEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a flat out coward. I say tell her that she should stop being so immature and if she's got something to say to you....to say it in your face or shut _______ up! If she's got a problem with you....go up to her and ask her whats up....if she's ready to brawl....show her who's boss....then anyone who sees this will know never to talk smack behind your back....be strong....don't resort to violence unless you have to....and don't do anything scarring....just push her around a little....if it comes to that....
Oh my GOD! What is wrong with you people!!!! Don't listen to these coments....i can't believe what a bunch of passifists there are in this country....that's why America is filled with a bunch of weak in the knees actionless people. You need to get at the root of the problem and deal with it head on....ignoring your problems in life is the dumbest thing you could ever do....it makes you weak and people will walk all over you with there slander....stand up for yourself and build a reputation of a strong person who doesn't back down. Oh and lastly....seriously....don't let anyone EVER get away with calling you names or spreading rumors about you. EVER. It's the root of insecurity.
2006-12-09 18:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda_Jedi_He_Is 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont beat her up, thats stupid, its just gonna make thigns worse, plus believe it or not it makes you look weak. dont ***** bout her behind her back either because at the en dpf the day u dont need to proove urself to her. i know it really annoys u but i recon the best thing you can do is show her no emotion, dont let her see that shes getting to u, coz at the end of the day she wants a reaction from u, dont give her the pleasure, be the bigger person, ignor her, hope this helps xxxxx
2006-12-09 18:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I think that fighting is never the answer but... i mean you should sit her down and be like whats the deal we were close and now were not what did i ever do to you and if that doesnt work then beat the **** out of her but make sure your big enough!
2006-12-09 18:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well next time, when she stares at you, go up to her and tell her if she doesn't quit messing with you, the whole school will know her secret. ANd I knw it's a lie, but make one up. And if she still keep doing it. Just tell her this, I know your gay and now the whole school will know and that should shut her up.
2006-12-09 18:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to confront her in front of everyone. Or everyone is going to think that you are a wimp. I am kidding.
Move on girl. Is she so consumed with you that this is how she wants to spend her extra time. Writing nasty things about you on her website. I mean that is sad, doesn't she have anything better to do with her time.
2006-12-09 18:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all just ignore her it's all part of growing up,but for goodness sake don't hit her as that is just been childish
2006-12-09 18:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by amber_xx66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't beat her, talk to your principal. get her in consouling.
she could go to juvinile detention for that.
don't beat her up it isn't worth it.
Another thing to think about: Is she mad at you for something you did to her?
Things will fall into place at the right time.
2006-12-09 18:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh she'd probably wipe the parking lot up with your face, keep quiet and mind your manners...
2006-12-09 18:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋