i have a friend(boy)...and he is gay...and he doesn't know that i notice that he is a homosexual...should i tell him?or should i act like noting happen...?i known him for severel years,and i was afraid to tel him...i found out that he has o boyfriend...so i'm sore that he is gay...what sould i do...HELP pls!
2006-12-09 09:49:18 · 14 answers · asked by Adina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are friends, you should be able to sit down with him. Maybe he is afraid to tell you for fear of losing you as a friend. First you have to decide if this is a problem with you being his friend. Sit down with him and tell him you like him for who he is no matter what. He may or may not tell you, but at least you will have told him. You can be there for him if he chooses to tell you. Or you can just come out and tell him you know, and let him know you are still his friend just as before.
2006-12-09 09:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say a word, let him tell you when he feels like telling you. Why do you think he hasn't told you before now? Has the thought entered your mind that maybe he's affraid of losing you as a friend if he tells you? Get over yourself and stop being sore.
2006-12-09 09:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and his friendship means a lot to you, then his being gay should only affect one part of that friendship; the part that says you can't date each other! Don't be sore at him, he needs your support and friendship. He'll have enough drama dealing with the uptight fools who won't understand. And by the way, you don't have to tell him you know he's gay, let HIM tell YOU. Then you can say, "I know." And move on.
2006-12-09 09:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Harlemlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. A friendship of several years can handle most things, if having this secret between you is hindering your friendship, then you must do something. If your OK with him being gay then why should it matter if he knows that you know? Sexuality is a touchy subject, find a way to tell him that you know with out hurting him.
2006-12-09 09:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kat B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and your friend are really good friends and you dont think it would upset him that you know he is gay, then i would suggest talking to him. On the other hand, if he hasn't come out of the closet to anyone, then maybe you should wait for when he is ready to confess that he is gay.
2006-12-09 09:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by GA Peach Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would just wait untill the right time to say it. If he is a good friend he wont hate you. Just say, i have noticed you have a boyfriend... thats cool
2006-12-09 09:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by millsiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother had the identical trouble, All you have got to do is block it all, Its well to be looking to draw back however should you simply block all porn, you wont have the urge to get on porn, Believe me. We did it to my brothers Laptop and hez quality, Just check out it. Hope it helped
2016-09-03 09:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him privately and tell him you're not going to leave or stop being with him. Be his friend, just don't go into sexual relations and all. Otherwise in my opinion, you shouldn't leave him. Good luck!
2006-12-09 09:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just carry on being his freind and don't make a big deal out of it at all, he may be timid in telling anyone. if you blast in putting a big show then he may not like you for that.
2006-12-09 09:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay outta his buisness if he ahs a man them I'm sure he knows that he is gay
2006-12-09 09:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋