capicorns, do you feel like it is getting harder for us to find love?

Question

i mean being a capicorn im looking for a girl who is sweet loyal and wants to be in relationship that will go somewhere i also find it very very hard to trust someone. But with the direction the world is going in today i.e. casual sex, just having fun, cheating. (basicly what ever they see on laguna beach) it seems like its nearly impossible to find someone worth haveing a serious relationship with. dont get me wrong ive had my fair share of "fun" and while i do enjoy messing around it seems like its all i can find as in i dont fall in love

Answer 1

I am a Capricorn( I am proud to be a Cappy!) and I think you are a typical Capricorn. Capricorns are loyal and abhor divorce. After all, when a couple get married they become one flesh so how can they separate? Besides, sex is for marriage and there is only meaning if it is with the one you love. Casual sex undermines that fact.
Since you want a loyal partner then stay away from Air signs esp. Geminis and Libras as they are the most fickle and flirtatious people of the zodiac.
It would be better to date an Earth sign ie Virgo Capricorn Taurus
Water signs are good too ie Pisces Scorpio Cancer
Fire+ Earth=Lava so stay away from them too ie Aries Leo Sagittarius
Also we Capricorns are materialistic so it is really hard to find love ... but ...hope you will find this helpful!
How to date Taurus
Instructions
STEP 1: Be honest and clear. Taureans are direct and down to earth and appreciate the same in return. STEP 2: Provide the Taurean with good food and drink. They enjoy comfort. STEP 3: Give the Taurean a taste of luxury - they love the finer (and more expensive) things in life. STEP 4: Offer hugs, massages and other physical delights. These beings are sensualists. STEP 5: Take your date to an elegant affair. Taureans enjoy a bit of display. STEP 6: Surprise your Taurean. They are usually sentimental souls - they love receiving flowers, cards and gifts. STEP 7: Let the Taurean take care of you
Instructions
STEP 1: Treat a Cancerian to a quiet candlelit dinner. They like feeling secluded and safe. STEP 2: Let the Cancerian feed and nurture you. If he wants to bake you cookies, you're in luck! STEP 3: Tread softly. No matter how easygoing, Cancerians are sensitive to slights and misunderstandings. A quiet, gentle approach works wonders. STEP 4: Invite your Cancerian home for takeout and a video. Cancers feel most comfortable in a domestic setting. STEP 5: Abandon your expectations that your Cancerian will run away with you after a wild night in Vegas. They love deeply but are self-protective. STEP 6: Don't be upset by a Cancer's moods. Any Cancer will retreat and approach, retreat and approach, and may confuse those used to straightforward dealings. They aren't playing games - it's just the way they are. STEP 7: Take her on a trip to a cozy bed and breakfast, on the beach or in the mountains. Cancers love nature and will blossom in such an environment.
How to date Virgo
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STEP 1: Watch your appearance. Virgos prize neatness and cleanliness. STEP 2: Talk things over. Virgos enjoy analysis and mental exploration. STEP 3: Take a hike, a bike or a walk. These folks like exercise and the outdoors. STEP 4: Be dependable and discreet. A Virgo dislikes thoughtlessness. STEP 5: Invite your Virgo on a shore cleanup or to a soup kitchen - they love to help others. STEP 6: Give your Virgo a plant or flowers. Virgos are earthy souls
How to date Scorpio
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STEP 1: Looking for a carefree time? A Scorpio's intensity may not be your best bet. STEP 2: Be honest and considerate with a Scorpio. Like all water signs, they are very protective of their feelings, and a Scorpio's feelings are often strong and tumultuous. STEP 3: Expect the unexpected. Scorpios' motivations may be difficult to understand, but despite their reputation, they are unlikely to be harsh or vindictive. STEP 4: Take your date to the Ingmar Bergman film festival. STEP 5: Take your Scorpio out for a quiet dinner. A Scorpio enjoys the traditional pleasures. STEP 6: Keep in mind that underneath
How to date Capricorn
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STEP 1: Invite your Cap to a quiet party with a few friends. Capricorns are usually rather reserved and enjoy small gatherings rather than large ones. STEP 2: Be patient. Capricorns are cautious at first, but once they trust you and relax, they prove rewarding, warm and loyal friends. STEP 3: Heading to the movies? Take your Cap to a comedy. They are serious people, but if encouraged, can also be lively and full of fun. STEP 4: Buy your Capricorn a practical gift, something that might even seem like an investment - food, books, diamonds or stock options. They abhor frivolity. STEP 5: Take your date on a visit to the botanical gardens. Capricorns love plants and landscapes. STEP 6: Choose a Capricorn if you're looking for someone steady and reliable.
How to date Pisces
Instructions
STEP 1: Give the Pisces personal gifts. It's not the gift that impresses a Pisces, it's what's inside the giver. STEP 2: Try not to feel slighted when your date acts as if she loves everyone. It's not really true, but because Pisces are the lovers of the universe, it's their nature. STEP 3: Be loving and understanding - that's what the Pisces craves most of all. Like all water signs, they're more sensitive than they let on. STEP 4: Invite your Pisces to a Buddhist meditation gathering, especially if it's held on the beach or in an open meadow. They need a healthy outlet for their rich imaginations. STEP 5: Go to the movies or the theater. Pisces love fantasies! STEP 6: Be direct and clear with your Pisces when imparting important information. They are highly intuitive but can get easily confused.

Answer 2

I'm a scorpio with a capricorn moon and I'm the same way, but sometimes when I do find what I want, I either get nervous and take too much time getting up to ask or the scorpio side goes overboard and I wind up getting shunned afterward (as I come on a little too hard)

But I've been having people push me to try at Church, and I've found that what I do like are usually people who are kind of religious as where I'm at.. Alcohol and drunken sex are just second nature for others.

Answer 3

I am a Leo and married to a Cap. No one in his family thought he would ever marry, since he constantly looked for love and everytime he always ended up with the wrong girl.
When I met him, he had been dateless for 8 years. I had my share of broken hearts and some of them were quite bad, but I liked him the very first time we talked and I thought "Well I already failed before, if I fail again, at least I know what to do"
After a while I was sure about my feelings for him and asked him to marry me. It may be a surprise for you to hear this, but a relationship with female Leo can only last if she loves you and so it doesn't matter for her whether you love her or not, as long as you are hers.
My husband agreed to marry me yet I know he was doubtful at the time. But I love only him and I don't care if he has or had anyone else in his mind. We've been together for 6 yrs now and my mother in law told me that he told her how much he would miss in life if we didn't marry.
You Cap are perfectionist, sticking to plan and stabil. You forget that hearts, glasses and laws are made to be broken; and that if you keep on mending them each time they break - they will be unbreakable in the end!
Why don't you stop climbing mountains and stay in the lowlands? It will make it easier for her to find you.....

Answer 4

OMG! I know what you mean. I feel like that right now. As a cappy woman, its particularly tough for me because I'm way too shy to ask a man out on a date. Plus, I'm not a huge fan of the whole "dating game", so I choose not to engage in it as much as others.

Like you, I think we are good people ... but trust is a virtue. I too have always needed up with the wrong men, the ones who like to take advantage.

I think capricorns just have to be patient and wait. True we have so much love to give but we don't want to give it all to the wrong person. If we give all that we have to the wrong person, then we'll be left jaded and empty.

Answer 5

I'm an Aquarius so sorry about me answering a question meant for Capricorns, but I have a very good friend who is a Capricorn. She dated a guy me and the rest of our friends HATED, then stopped for like 2 years, then started dating him again against my advice. I don't know what her relationship with him is now, but she just goes around making friends wherever she goes, but none of them are that close, including me. Well, we used to be but then we drifted apart. All her relationships seem to end with her leaving and coming back. I think it is definitely harder for Capricorns because you people quite frankly have no idea what you want, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. You're just looking around, exploring the possiblities. One day you'll find that girl, and when you do, you'll know. Good luck :)

Answer 6

Im a Cappy and have been with my partner for nearly 6 years. I didnt ever think i would marry or have kids for that matter. It all came unexpectedly. Im very much in love with my partner and am 9 months pregnant with my first child.

You will nearly always find the person you are looking for when you least expect it regardless of your astrological sign.

Answer 7

As a Capricorn, I find that life gets better when I just accept love the way it is instead of expecting too much from it.

Answer 8

i am not a cap but my EX was though i can say this for them they are perfectionist ..they or at least he thought he was right all the time.. a control freak.. hopefully they are not all that way.. i have found them to be best friends though so maybe it was just him.. if you find that girl you are looking for ..don't smother her and let her be her self you will be much happier and so will she and she wont leave you.. cappy can make a happy home for someone if they don't let there jealously rule their heart and mind

Answer 9

I went through the same thing. I never thought I'd ever fall in love and get married. Hang in there, love will find its way.

Answer 10

(Sorry, I'm not Capricorn, but know some) When you find the girl you're looking for, will you recognize her? If you can't trust, can you at least appear like you trust ?