because i just came from a funeral and i was crying my eyes out and now i dont want to talk to my friend.cuz its hard i dnt fee like talking to anyone at the moment
2006-12-09 09:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
for me, u can never get over it if u really love that someone but then you have to move on... but it doesn't mean you have to forget them.
2006-12-09 09:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I lost my mother over six years ago and I still have a hard time with it at times but my mother taught me that if life hands you a lemon then make lemon-aid out of it. There is always a brighter side to things and spend more time thinking about the good and less time thinking about the bad and before long you get past the bad.
2006-12-09 17:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard and everyone must get through it in their own way. If you want to be alone take some time to do that but do set a time limit and then get out and be with people. You still might not feel like it but it will be good for you. If you need to cry, do it, better out than in. Keep busy do things to occupy your mind unless you want to stop and think about that person and your time with them. Be gentle with yourself and take things slow one day or even one hour at a time. You will get through this. God Bless
2006-12-09 17:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. You have all the right in the world to cry until you can cry no more. Talk to a counselor to help you sort out your feelings. The more you can talk about the good memories, and great times you had together the better you will feel. Just remember that time heals all wounds.
2006-12-09 17:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont things get better day by day but you never get over losing a loved one but life goes on like that song by Tupac
2006-12-09 17:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take deep breaths.
this may take time to get over.
you should get a journal and write your feelings out.
walk through nature.
My grandma died when I was in fourth grade, I wore black for three months. That didn't help.
Remember that he/she is in a better place.
go to church and talk to the pastor there. They would know how to handle a situation like that
2006-12-09 18:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucelen...It's hard to get over someone you loved...time takes care of alot of the pain, but they never leave your heart. I lost my dad 22 years ago.....I miss him every day.
2006-12-09 17:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lovinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time.
2006-12-09 17:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WeLl,
U can never really get over it... But the pain will stop and you'll moove on!!!! But the memories will never fade... And you'll still love them just as much... No matter who or wat anyone else says, someday!!! You will remember they loved u 2!!!
And they wont forget u!!!
GOOD LUCK...
2006-12-09 17:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Chi Chi S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding comfort in knowing that u r not the only one hurting
2006-12-09 17:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋