It's very important that i know!
2006-12-09 08:52:18 · 11 answers · asked by lil_fine11 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you could tell her how bad its going to be for the people who love her and she is being selfish to take her life away from the people that love her. You could also stress the point that its a sin to kill her self and she will go to hell if she takes her life. also tell her to come here and I'll give her anything she wants up to a new house.
2006-12-09 09:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since i don't know the whole situation i can only answer in generic terms.
1. Tell her you love her/him. Let them know that they are loved, if by no one else then by you.
2. If they wan't to runaway then im asuming that they have a tough family life. My dad had the same thing and tried both of the above, but by the grace of God he never died or got any serious injuries. If this is the case and they are abusing her/him, call child services.
3. GET THE POLICE INVOLVED. Call them. She/He may hate you for a while, but you'll have saved their lives. I know it's a scary thought. But do it. It will be better than waiting for her to kill herself, knowing that you could have stopped it. Or waiting for her to run away to who knows where. And you will always wonder what became of her. Did she die of starvation? Was she picked up by some perverts or psychos? Did she wind up a prostitute? Get the police involved, and do it w/o telling her.
2006-12-09 09:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly what to say to that person, except keep doing what you are doing.. be available for that person to talk to and as far as the reasons the person is running away.. talk to them about what the consequences of being out there on your own are... It really seems fun to be on your own, until you are actually out there for a while.. The long term of being out there on your own is totally different that when you just get out there. Is there a counselor at school that you could talk to... when it gets to the point of someone talking about killing themselves.. talk to someone that can help you.. You definitely don't want something to happen and have to live with the guilt that you could have done more (like talking to an adult)
2006-12-09 08:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Middekibby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how much you care about her as a friend and how much she would be hurting you and others if she were to something bad. Also, she has to realize that things do get better. I know it's hard to think about the future when you're stuck in the now, but she's got to know that she's loved and that bad times don't last forever. Good things are waiting to happen. Besides, things aren't all that bad. She has a good friend like you, right?
2006-12-09 08:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know the reason/s why , try to talk about it.
Be calm and never get angry.
Tell her that you will miss her very much if she weren't around .
Tell her that you love and care for her too.
And that living is a good thing.. No matter how discouraged
she gets or how bad her life seems.'
Talk about the good times you and her have had together,
2006-12-09 08:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are good friends with this person, YOURSELF should be a good enough reason. Tell that person that life is something that no one should be deprived of, for life is what makes the world go round
2006-12-09 09:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by makelovenothate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to a workshop for procrastinators: one strategy was to break down the task you are procrastinating into manageable components (so, instead of cleaning up your messy condominium unit, maybe cleaning up a certain definable portion of it and saving another portion for another day).
This advice is also given to anxiety patients.
Try to get her to break down things into issues--i.e., instead of the nebulous statement that "my life is a mess," she can carve out at least a few issues which are making her life a mess (this is called breaking things down into manageable components).
So. . . why do you want to run away? (my parents make me crazy.) what specifically do they do to make you crazy? (answer #1, answer #2, answer #3). what can you do to make [one of these issues] easier? [Notice we're not going for solving the issue altogether, and we're not trying to deal with more than one issue at a time.]
Hope that helps.
2006-12-09 09:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by amy02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not sure your religion but seriously you need to first PRAY about it then you need to help tell her God loves her & there is a reason she is here when GOd is ready for her to leave he will come get her !!!!! try to take her to church everything you can jus let her know you are there for here & it might be hard but jus try you best GOOD LUCK !!!! :)
2006-12-09 08:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince her that there is so much more to live for. and that there os more to life. wgatever u do plz dont let her do it!!
2006-12-09 08:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. some people are born under a bad moon.
2006-12-09 09:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋