Boys don't seem interested in me.Recently I have talked to this guy for 3 weeks on the phone. We met on a dating site now he hasn't called me.When I call him I get his answering machine. I don't call him everyday, like he did to me.Then when I meet boys they seem not into me. Is it because I'm not stick thin?Is it because I am short?I am beginning to think there is something wrong with me. I am 19 years old and haven't had a boyfriend yet. What is wrong w/ me!! Please help me!
2006-12-09 08:21:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
-that guy was probably never interested. i'm sure he was hounding a bunch of girls on the internet at the same time, and one happened to work out and have sex with him, so now he'll just avoid your calls. don't bother calling him again.
-it has nothing to do with your weight. there are so many different types of guys out there, and some like stick figure girls, and some like girls that they can actually have sex with and not break.
-it's not because you're short. i am 5'2'' and my boyfriend is 6'7''. it's working out perfectly.
-there is nothing wrong with you
-don't be so anxious to have a boyfriend. what is the big deal? enjoy YOUR life. plus, the boyfriend you have at 19, probably won't be the boyfriend you have at 29, 39, 49, 59, 69, so don't worry about finding prince charming. the internet is usually a bad call, so don't try and meet guys there. people talk online in a different voice than they do in person sometimes, and you never know who you are meeting. it is extremely unsafe for a 19 year old girl who is as anxious as you to go eagerly meet some guy from the internet.
just go and have fun with your girlfriends. go to a club that is 18 and over and dance with them. go to some shows, go out to dinner, go to museums, go to movies, go to parties. usually the best way to meet guys is through friends you already have and meeting them in a social situation. it also gives you the opportunity to find out their history/background through mutual friends.
be safe! be single! be comfortable with yourself!
2006-12-09 08:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. It is the guys you are looking for. I always look at the inside of a person first. You can find out how pretty they are by talking to them. Look at the guys you work with, or friends with. Looks are only skin deep, and that is the truth! The ugliest man I ever knew, got to be alot better looking after I knew him. He didn't have a nice looking face, but he had everything else, he was funny, compassionate,and fun to be with. I didn't have sex with him for almost a year. Believe me when I say, when you find him, don't let him know you are intersted. If you are fat, there are guys out there that like that too. There is a website you can surf, and i am not telling you to meet someone on the net, but it is a great website to show you the Big Is Beautiful too. As a matter of fact, that is what the website is. BBW.com . Take a peek and you will see i am right. There are guys on that website looking for Big Beautiful Women. Good Luck, not that you will need it.
2006-12-09 08:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by cprucka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22, never had a boyfriend. I don't make myself available, cause I'm not really interested in dating right now. It will come when it comes. So just be patient, and only time will tell. I do have a lot of guy friends though. Good luck!
2006-12-09 08:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by themyth60 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you sweetie, there is a guy out there that is just right for you somewhere, you just haven't met him yet. Sometimes when you look so hard to try to find someone it won't happen, and then when you stop trying, and just be yourself, he will just show up where you least expected. You do not need to change anything about yourself, unless it is something that "you" are not happy with. Someone will either like you for who you are, or they won't. If they don't then they are not the right one for you. Just keep on being yourself, and never think there is something wrong with you, or you have to be someone you are not! Keep your chin up :o)
2006-12-09 08:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not try too hard it makes you look desperate. The guy has found someone else. And I am pretty positive that you are beautiful and unique and yes you will find a man...trust me on that....just don't make your self so available to guys cause that just makes you vulnerable.....I wish you the best life has to offer!
2006-12-09 08:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by autumn w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I would change is try not to be so head strong.Men do not like that at all.Plus Try not to Try so much they well come around when you least expect it.Trust me.In the mean time work on your self confides.
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2016-10-05 02:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's always someone out there for everyone!!I'm sure you have a great personality..if it takes you a while to find that special someone than it is worth waiting for!!It's not you who has the problem...it's these boys who lack on seeing the good in you..so forget them and good luck on meeting someone who takes the time to appreciate you..
2006-12-09 08:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by First Lady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem people tell me to change but i wont change for no one because if i have to change to get a boyfriend then it wouldn't be like they re going out with "me" it would be like they re dating someone else.
just be yourself and be patient and someone will come along someday and then you will be happy that you never changed for anyone.
there is someone out there for everyone and one day you will find that someone special to you until then be yourself and stay confident in yourself!!
2006-12-09 09:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try presenting yourself as a person with high confidence in herself. Men love that.
2006-12-09 08:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by A B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋