Hi everyone, im new here in u.s.a (9months here already) and i have a husband. i feel happy that when my husband gets home from work but still i feel empty, sad and lonely, when my husband get home from work his mind was focus to the computer and telephone talking to his friends. and i feel like im alone. i stay home because i dont have work and i dont know how to drive. and all i want is my husband . i want when my husband is home i want him to share moments with me, exchange conversation, or laugh together. but no, for my 9 months here i feel very lonely. please help me
2006-12-09 08:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by shieryl d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you just quietly sit there in your misery, and he goes on with his busy life, he may not even notice. He doesn't sound very attentive, you may have to sit him down and tell him how you feel. Who knows, he may see the error of his ways and you two will be happy together. No one deserves to be miserable and lonely. Good luck.
2006-12-09 08:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have tryed to tell him this already, but remember guys don't hear what we're saying when we talk to them emotionally. We expect them to understand and look at it our way. Well, they expect us to look at things their way so try not to dwell on what upsets you, get it out in the air with a friend thats a girl. We girls understand though, thats why we talk to them about our problems. Even though you don't have to work, it sounds like it would be better for you to get out there and make friends that you have things in common with. I don't know if you've heard of Christian Carter but he has some wonderful views of women and men. He had cd's excetera, I haven't purchased any myself but he does have some good ideas.
2006-12-09 16:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you feel like you are alone, you probabally are. you cant depend on your husband for company all the time, so you should get out. take drivers ed, (or use a bus) and go shopping, go talk to the neighbors, join a class(like yoga, or dancing, or whatever) just make some friends, and do stuff...
2006-12-09 16:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by M T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make friends to go out with, find a man with adventure in his blood and dont ever depend on someone else for you happiness, you should find yourself before marriage
2006-12-09 16:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will eventually be the end of your relationship if you don't have a serious talk about it.
2006-12-09 17:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.
2006-12-09 16:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by pikachu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋