i'm referring to that one relationship that didn't work out. yes, you can love somebody else some other time but the emotion is never the same. if anyone can relate to this, pl. tell me what you think
thanx
2006-12-09 07:57:38 · 15 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you are wrong. they are not taken away; but rather, lost.... lost by you.
don't let the most beautiful thing in your life slip away. appreciate it, care for it, let it grow.
2006-12-09 08:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by mike28937123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to how you are feeling and it is very though to let go of such strong feelings. The reason we think we can never conceive the same emotions for other people is because we wont be the same as time passes by. Whether you notice it or not or whether is for good or bad we as human change and even though sometimes life can put us back on similar situations we will never react the same way.
I will never forget my first love and I firmly believe that I could never really love anyone the way I loved him because I will never be as innocent, selfless and open to those feelings again. With the help of time I have unconsciously built a protective shell around my feelings and although I've had loved other people after him nothing can compare to what I felt the first time.
The loved we shared was taken away by distance and by petty situations that should not have been strong enough to kill our love but it did, and all I have left are the beautiful memories that we once built together and no matter how many years pass by or how many other people I love it will never compare to what I shared with him simply because I am not the same person I used to be when I was with him
2006-12-09 16:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing has ever been taken away from me in a relationship because I realize that a man could never do anything to me that I did not allow him to do to me. Just because I was hurt in a few relationships does not mean that I stop being who I am. It just means that that person was not ready for what I could give him. So I let him be free so that I could find someone who was ready. And I did and he is my husband and he is very appreciative of all the love that I have.
2006-12-09 16:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand, but it works both ways. Nothing lasts forever. That includes the good & the bad. I am in a great relationship now, over 3 years, but I've had two failed marriages, so I've seen both sides. If it's any comfort to you, the hurt doesn't last forever either. Well, a trace of it does, but not the intense hurt you feel now. They say time heals all wounds. This is true, but it does leave a scar.
2006-12-09 16:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i can relate i think the most beautiful things in life are taken away from us in order to make us appreciate them better. They are also given to us to make us believe that they exist...Every so often we forget they are there. When we think we lost love we're wrong, I think love is everlasting whether if it is perused or not. You lost the relationship but you still hold love for that person as well and always will... Love is the true gift, and though it is no loner being perused you are lucky to behold it.
2006-12-09 16:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by janey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are never forcefully taken from us, we simply raise our view of them so high that eventually, when we take another look, they seem to be suddenly far, far away.
The fact is that relationships are always traveling toward some sort of end. This travel is constant and unstoppable. The only thing that changes is our perceptions.
Though the relationship may be tanking and completely hopeless, we only realize such things when we want to.
unless we are right there in constant check of the state of things(which is impossible) relationships will always seem to make drastic and mysterious turns, in this unfortunate case, the ending turn.
2006-12-09 16:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by tinman2022 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because nothing of this world is infinite.
Because humans are imperfect and will never fully live up to expectations.
Because emotions fluctuate and fade.
Because, in the end, ultimately, everyone dies.
Pessimistic? Realistic, I think.
But a better question for you would be: What is Love?
2006-12-09 16:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Simplex Spes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea...my freedom was taken away from me when I was 15 and I was taken out of state and thrown in a rehab...I lost my g/f only to return back two years later to find things would never be the same...
2006-12-09 16:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'va had three, i loved each one more than the last.
it only makes sense that as we mature we should have better, stronger relationships, you know learn from the past.
2006-12-09 16:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Innocence.
2006-12-09 15:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋