everytime i feel i like sth, and i start doing it but after a while i think that why on earth im doing...?!
help me!
how can i find out what i want!
how can i know that im the one who is deciding for me?!
2006-12-09 07:36:16 · 6 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
To find out whether you genuinely like something, and your affiliation/affection/liking is not just based on fashion, ambiance or anything else, get to know yourself better. No hiding, no lies, just what you are. Just truth. Then imagine what it will be like if you can never do it, of it is entirely lost, what will be your life like without it... stuff like that. And if it is important enough so that its absence upsets you, then you really like it.
...Or you ask a magic 8 ball and you know for sure that someone else is making the decisions for you :)
2006-12-09 07:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Tzvety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a long fight with the same problem. Read the little book "As a man thinketh" by James Allen. Listen to your heart,slow down your thoughts in quiet meditation. Karma, actions in thought, word, and deed are the building blocks of your life circumstances. & your destiny. Choose carefully the thoughts you allow to remain in your mind. The mind is not for thinking ,the mind is for receiving thought. Ask questions of your heart. Do what is before you to do,dedicating all to the service of God & all that he has created.
2006-12-09 15:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Weldon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should love yourself first.this is the more important step in a sb life.when you love yourself you pay attention to yourself and to your interests, hobbies and skills.you can know yourself well and then can decide what you like to do in your life.
Every body has different skills, intrests, so we are not look alike each other.You must be yourself and improve your skills to be succeed and dont pay attention to the other funny ideas about you.
just do these steps and have self confidence.good luck
2006-12-09 15:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Elham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look all u have to do is sit down and make a list in your mind of all the things you like ... then try to find ways to do those things ... try to be creative in doing things ... they would seem more fun and listen to some cool or relaxing music ... u choose... that would ease up your mind
P.S. it also depends on what things you like to do ... don't do things that would hurt people cause in the end you will get more hurt and confused than you are now
2006-12-09 15:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by happy go lucky gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is when you want something, you'll know it. Try this:
1 do something,
2 ask yourself if you'd do it again...if the answer is yes, that's you liking it. If not, just go back to step 1 and try something else.
2006-12-09 17:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't always listen to what your heart has to say follow in what you believe is right or wrong.
2006-12-09 23:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Element 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋