been married for 6 months only!!!
2006-12-09 07:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by lost soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The first step in every relationship is communication. Make a nice dinner have some candles around so you can create a romantic and a relaxed atmosphere.
Have some wine or any drink of his choice and start a calm conversation regarding your sex life. Tell him you love him and you need to be loved in return, intimacy and love making are a fundamental part of a couple's relationship and it has to be addressed. Make sure you don't use an aggressive or insulting tone. Be gentle and encouraging and try and find out if maybe there is a possibility that some external factors are in effect here like financial problems, health issues or work related stress.
Dress up nice and sexy and be positive and loving.
All the best. Good luck!
2006-12-09 07:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are newly weds and not having sex 3 xs a day then i say somethings wrong. especially if he doesnt show that hes attracted to you. guys need sex everyday or at least 3 xs a week. if hes not getting it from you then sorry to say it but kinda sounds like hes cheating!!! make him know that u want sex. and are totally willing to have sex with him! maybe hes not cheating on you, maybe your not making your self available. do something ultra sexy for him. if hes a business suit kinda guy then surprise him by just wearing a tie and nothing else when he comes home. if hes a skater guy then surprise him by wearing skater shoes and nothing else. get him interested. or when he comes home be cooking and wearing nothing but some red stilletos and red lipstick. he will deffinitly be interested then. good luck. and have fun. :)
2006-12-09 15:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by jrs wife! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband did that to me...because he didn't want me to get pregnant...BUT I did...once I had my tubes tied..the sex started rolling again...Maybe he's afraid to start a family at this point..You have only been married for 6 months...
2006-12-09 15:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not take any action in hurry, u should talk with him clearly and sincerly, may be he have some problem like he is shy to u ,he have some problem ,he scarred with something.
2006-12-09 15:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by anjali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be looking at divorce possibly annulment.
2006-12-09 15:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How was he before marriage? If he was OK ask him what happened.
2006-12-09 18:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋