I think I have a crush on my (a girl)... Im confused...
2006-12-09 07:29:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is my easy guide to gayness.
If you want to hug your friend, you might be gay, bi, or straight.
If you want to be like your friend, you might be gay, bi or straight.
If she makes you laugh like no one else does, you might be gay bi or straight.
If you think she always looks so good!, then you might be gay, bi, or straight.
If you think about running your hands along her face, you're probably gay or bi.
If you think about how sweet it would be to cuddle her and feel her in your arms, you're probably gay or bi.
If you think about kissing her and having her enthusiastically kiss you back, probably gay or bi.
If you think about touching her skin without any clothes on, you're gay or bi.
If you think about licking her neck and listening to her moan, you're gay or bi.
If you think about her while touching yourself, you're gay or bi.
Don't worry so much about the label at this point. People take YEARS to figure out if they are 100% gay or bisexual. Some people prefer labells like queer because then they don't have to decide.
Think about you, yourself, and what you want and I think you'll have your answer.
2006-12-09 10:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay it is very easy to be attracted to people specially if you are with them all the time and you are having fun when u hang out with them but before you think that you are attracted you should identify if what you are feeling is indeed more than just attraction. There are many women who can be attracted to other women but that doesn't mean they are bisexuals. Now if you feel like you want to kiss her or be with her or you get jealous if guys talks to her or you feel like you wanna hug her or "male love to her" then you JUST MAY BE BISEXUAL. It can also be "curiosity" creeping up on you, once you tried "doing it" with a girl and you are totally comfortable with it and you still want to "do it" with guys the YOU ARE A BISEXUAL. So understand your feelings and emotions first, you may just be on the point of "knowing yourself" or experimenting.
2006-12-09 16:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as you said it yourself :you have a crush on her.
What do you think it means?
If I were you i would talk about it with her,if she is in to it:who knows what good might happen
If on the other hand she is no game:then no harm done:your crush will blow over.
And if you two can be cool about it the better.
Greetings Rob.xxxx
2006-12-09 16:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this stage, you may simply be bicurious. If you acted out on your crush, then it depends on what comes of it.
If you repeatedly think about people of either gender on a sexual and/or romantic level, then you are probably bisexual. A bisexual cannot deny their feelings for either gender - irrespective of which one they are attracted to the most.
2006-12-09 16:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by nemesis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confusion comes when you refuse to see the reality. If you are on here asking if you are an alcoholic because you drink to much... then its obvious that you are an alcoholic. Same with this question.
2006-12-09 15:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by crissyk24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should put so much thought into it. If anything is to happen it will. If it does happen and it doesn't feel right for you then that's ok. If it does feel right then that's ok too. I don't think a persons sexuality is etched in stone.
2006-12-09 15:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by sydney77 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think people who say they are bi are really gay and just don't want to admit it.
2006-12-09 15:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're attracted to both sexes and can form meaningful relationships with both sexes...
2006-12-09 15:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by kristinamarie0550 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel comfortable with the idea of you and her making out, and saying "I love you" as well as with a guy.. then you have your answer
2006-12-09 16:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Morphosys Mx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋