Its not only the language barrier between me and my wife, but their are a lot of issues going on in the relationship. I say language barrier and culture difference because she is from Mexico and didn’t speak much English at all when we met and I still don’t know any Spanish. And don’t attack my intellect. I’m am one the best artist in the world and I have a college degree.
We have a girl who is five years old. I like to read and help her with her homework. I am very concerned about my daughter and only want her to be successful in life. I only want my daughter to have a bright personality and bright intellect.
If I leave, then I feel like that I would destroying my daughters life. But I believe it might be best to separate from my wife and allow both of us to find happiness in a life were we both belong with who were with.
2006-12-09 07:22:11 · 13 answers · asked by bradlitazole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband did marry a thai woman, and all she spoke thai, a broken english, he spoken broken thai, little english.
But If you live in the states, the ex, will get everything being that there is a language barrier.
YOu would destroyed your daughter's life, take some spanish lessons, learn to speak spanish and salvage your marriage.and let her take english classes to learn english, and learn each other langauage.
SAve your marriage, ther isn't any thing else in the way is there?
MY husband had to work with the kids too, and they all grown up and productive.
Oh She, was having affairs, and wanted the divorce, and threw this precious man away, for me!!!!
So now I get this man, to love, honor, and cherish for life!!!!!!
2006-12-09 07:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Nobodies perfect and we all make the wrong decisions in life sometimes. If things aren't going well between you and your wife your five year old daughter will pick up on it pretty quickly. The number one mistake that most married couples make in this life time is staying in a bad relationship for their children, not realizing that it hurts the kids more than if you were separated. Your children learn how to handle a relationship from their parent's examples. They need to see a healthy relationship in order to have one of their own some day..
2006-12-09 07:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by hurting 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If it's an dependancy, he are not able to triumph over it by myself. and it's only going to worsen. I did not recognize this till we received married however my husband had this dependancy lengthy earlier than I met him and it's been a enormous difficulty in our marriage. He used to be having intimate and emotional conversations with different females while he would not with me. He went so far as telling me one time that he wasn't serious about intercourse anymore since he could not get and hold an erection. anymore. Not lengthy after this I learned he used to be having an internet affair. We have certainly not had a well sexual dating since of this. We cross months and months with out being intimate. I attempt to inform myself that I stayed so long as I did since total he's a well character and now we have a daughter. He does some thing I ask him to do. We are extra peers than husband and spouse. I suppose approximately divorce day-to-day however I simply are not able to make myself cross by way of with it. What am I petrified of? I am now not petrified of being by myself. I customarily surprise what it might be like If I lived by myself and what kind of happier I might often be. I surprise whether it is since I am afraid of injuring him even after the whole lot he has performed to me? There is not any definite approach to recognize if he's going to ever recover from the dependancy and almost certainly you're going to be depressing since of it. Maybe check out seperation first and notice what occurs earlier than divorcing. That means you realize you're giving your marriage each hazard earlier than creating a last determination. Maybe I must take my possess recommendation, huh?
2016-09-03 09:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by willsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce doesn't mean that you will not see your daughter. I feel that
it would be best to end an unhappy relationship than to be unhappy . Children are very aware of the tension in the home and
often feel very lonely. Above all don.t make your little girl feel that she must take sides. She is still a baby, Reassure her and most all give an over abundance of love.
2006-12-09 07:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by bernice l 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DON'T DO IT if you do you'll regret it for the rest of your life and your daughter it will totally destroy her try and work it out and with the language barrior try to get her in some classes maybe that will work and help with your marriage. I hope you make the right decision. Think it over before you make any rash decisions
2006-12-09 07:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by e_z_drew 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you have to do what you feel in your heart. The best answer you'll get is by praying to God about it. He will give you answers. You only have one child and she is still little. It is so much harder when they are teens. I suggest if you do leave your wife, make sure your childs life style does not change and your love and attention to her is stronger than ever. Good luck!
2006-12-09 07:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
well was your wife a citizen of the us cause she is now. and you might risk the fact that she may run back to mexico with your daughter and i am not attacking your intellect IM ATTACKING THE FACT THAT YOU THINK YOU NEED TO LEARN SPANISH!! why cant your wife learn english?????
2006-12-09 07:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fatherless daughter statistics are horrible. Divorce is bad. Try a little harder to be more mexican and work things out. Mexi-CAN ... you can do it. Find common ground with your wife and grow together.
2006-12-09 07:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will only destroy your daughters life if you leave her too......you aren't doing that so don't worry about it. If you leave make sure your daughter knows this and things will be fine.
2006-12-09 07:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to get over this language barrier. now. and then see how u both really feel
2006-12-09 07:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋