There is a girl whom i love more than anyone in the world. She was my classfellow and She was a very brilliant student. She won too many medals in academics (we were in a medical college together, becoming doctors). I told her that i love her two years ago and asked for her hand in marriage. She said she loved me too. She agreed but her parents resisted my proposal. She became so upset by her parents attitude and failed in a single postgraduate exam six times. For all this while i was with her, beside her, helping her, encouraging, loving and caring for her all this time. But just a week ago she messaged me and said that it's been me responsible for all her failures and told me that she's breaking up as our relationship was not a blessing rather is a curse as its hindering her progress in life. We broke up. I don't know why but all this while there was not a single day she didn't say "I LOVE YOU" 10 times. Do you think that in true love you blame the one you love for all your failures?
2006-12-09 06:40:50 · 7 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would say that she is listening to her parents, and that she is overwelmed with college, and maybe back off awhile and see, i think she loves u, and we do hurt the ones we love. just distance yourself for awhile and wait and be patient.
2006-12-09 07:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, instead of failure blaming, those in love should be combining together to find a solution to save their marriage. She sounds a bit confused as to what she really wants in life and is hiding from reality so which she blames you for her own failures. Its no ones elses fault for our successes or failures, but it is so much easier to blame everybody else. Something tells me she didnt love you as much as she appeared to. What is she going to do when she still has failure but doesnt have you around to put the blame on?
2006-12-09 14:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a coward! You have to move on. All her life she'll have to live with the fact that she let you go. Shame on her. Go on with your life. Become a doctor and wait to meet someone that deserves you. Take care.
2006-12-09 14:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she does not deserve you The best revenge in life is to be happy and loved. she seems very shallow. take some time to heal and move on and find that special lady in your life.
2006-12-09 14:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she may be confused right now give her time. If its meant to be she will return.
2006-12-09 14:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. she never loved you. in spite of being brilliant, she's still a human being. meaning she's flawed and your too needy.
2006-12-09 14:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always hurt the one you love. Because they are the ones closest to you.
2006-12-09 14:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋