Ok, my friend (so called) keeps saying to me different friends of mine don't like me really and then she said she was talking to one of my very best friends on MSN, and then I said: 'Did he say anything about me?' she said 'No...' but all of a sudden, she stopped herself and said 'ACTUALLY, he said you're a ginger spaz, and even worse... he hates you.'
She's done this four times now (everytime she's done it, it never actually turned out to be true), and when I asked my friend about it, (he's never lied to me with friendships and things like that) he said to me: 'She told me she hates you and she doesn't like sitting near you in health & social care.'
So, which one should I believe, and why?
2006-12-09 06:34:45 · 12 answers · asked by xxsleepy_starxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What makes you think that both of them aren't each lying a little bit? It doesn't have to be a case of either/or.
2006-12-09 06:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you say your friend is a so called, and she keeps dissing you, i'd say she's either jealous of you or she's just going through some miserable issues. as for that friend diss business, if your frined on MSN denies it, tell him about what happened, maybe he will shed light in the situation, if that doesn't tell him about how your friend treats you, by then he should really understand whats going on. and finally if your 'friend' keeps doing this to you, just turn around and tell her "well, maybe i am disliked by my friends, maybe you should toddle off while i talk to my real friends" or something that makes her feel and know that what she done is (as we call it) crap and she doesn't deserve your attention.
tip: silent treatment always works.
2006-12-09 14:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by ChristopheraX 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typical girl bullshit. Your friend doesn't want to share you with anyone else. So she might be starting things for the hell of it. So no worries. Take a breather and sit them all down and ask them all, what the hell is going on. And next time she says something like to you, ask to see the instant messages.
2006-12-09 14:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her....."friends" like this are not worth a second glance. Just move on and make new friends. Forget her and sit somewhere else for health and social care. She might then realise what a special friend she had in you and kick herself for losing that!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 14:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Neil M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if she is a friend, I would sure hate to see your enemies! Why bother talking to such a person. For one thing, the insensitive gossip she informs you about someone saying about you shows she has a real MEAN streak and that she is getting joy out of being the bearer of cruel remarks. She is NOT your friend because she has absolutely NO consideration about your feelings. Apparently she is so jealous, she is dangerous! QUIT talking to her, she is using it to further her vicious behavior. Tell her no thanks if she comes up to you again. You prefer to get your info yourself as hers is unreliable.
2006-12-09 14:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your real friend, that girl is going to make your life bad. Don't believe her she sounds like a liar shes not really a friend.
2006-12-09 15:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Naruto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gave up after the first line.
2006-12-09 14:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither if u even believe that one is telling the truth and u guessed it right then sooner or later he is gona do a lie to u anyway +) i don't really see de point
2006-12-09 14:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard, and confusing. Investigate and get facts the make the correct concussion.
2006-12-09 14:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe the guy, because he seems more trustworthy. And if I were you, i'd drop the other girl. She's not worth your time.
2006-12-09 14:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋