She is 26 now...
2006-12-09 05:25:55 · 16 answers · asked by tomakechai2006 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
IT SHOULD REST FOR AT LEAST 5 WEEKS AND AFTER THAT PROCEED FOR FURTHER ENJOYMENT.
2006-12-09 16:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Days? Start thinking in weeks and months. Childbirth is a very strenous thing on the mothers body. If everything goes correctly, then she can have sex in about 6 weeks after delivery. If she had complications such as stitches, or a c-section, you may have to wait more like 8 to 12 weeks. Anything earlier than 6 weeks and the mothers body hasn't had time to completely close, and sex could cause an infection.
2006-12-09 05:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by dolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by "has just become a mother" you mean has just given birth, then there are a few things to consider. If she delivered by c-section, then it would be common sense to wait at least until she is feeling well and the scar has healed considerably. If she delivered vaginally, though, normally there's no problem with sex unless she underwent an episiotomy. Doctors often say to wait until the area has healed, especially if stitches were required to close the wound. Either way, you should wait until she is feeling strong enough and her drive for sex has returned. A woman who has recently given birth may have no interest in sex - for the obvious reasons - and it would be unfair to force her into it.
2006-12-09 05:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by mplimasol 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
usually around six weeks, when her doctor ok's it. But until the "lady" feels comfortable with it and any injuries are healed, she should not feel pressured to do so. When the time is right, take it slow. Just make sure the "lady" has the doctor's ok. If she had an episiotomy, you have to make sure it's healed to prevent injury.
2006-12-09 05:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by RRE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the method of birth, the ensuing condition, the healing process, if there were complications.
If the lady is healthy and had an easy birth, a few weeks should be okay, but she should consult her doctor first.
2006-12-09 05:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by angelicjolie2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to wait six weeks to allow for healing or at least untill the bleeding goes away. She has a high risk of infection and you don't want to get pregnant again until her uterus heals. Like they said, take a cold shower and sit back and relax........Enjoy that little one for now.
2006-12-09 05:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's diffrent for everyone because every birth has diffrent degrees of complications. Typically it's 6 weeks, but her doctor can say if it's okay before that with a check-up.
2006-12-09 05:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
40 days
2006-12-09 05:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by akband 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after how many days? Too bad your question should read "after how many months". hehe.. Depends on what her Dr says- some Drs say No- not until your 6 week exam afterwards and others say- whenever your ready and it's not painful.
2006-12-09 05:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask a doctor.
Depends on the pregnancy.
40 days was the rule of thumb.
2006-12-10 11:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower, she needs to wait 6 weeks. Honest to God, are there ANY men who care about someone elses needs?
2006-12-09 05:27:53 · answer #11 · answered by eastcoastdebra 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋