HI Laura,
since this is his child you are pregnant with you absilutely should talk to him about it before talking to anyone else..... the only exception to this rule is if you know 100% that you want to have an abortion then dont talk to him and just go do what you need to do for you....
do not marry anyone unless you know they are the right person for you regardless of whether you are pregnant or not.. but you should have a couple of years grace anyway because of your age..
Nine years is not such a big difference in age and all too often relationships between people of differing ages work quite well. So don't worry about the nay sayers who comment on him being too old for you...
If you are in Australia 16 is the legal age for sexual consent so he has not raped you by having consesual sex with you.... (other countries have differing ages f consent)
Oh and honestly at 16 it is quite possible to be an excellent mother..... ya know until very recent times it was also quite common to marry in many places arounf the world as young as 16 and I have met at least two women who married younger than that and they are still happily married to the first and only true love.
Go with your heart hun....
2006-12-09 06:28:00
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answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6
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These questions just keep getting tougher and tougher because no matter how much I want to believe that it isn't happening, it is. Babies are having babies too often...
O.k well you're already pregnant so whatever like you planned and whatever future you were aspiring to have is now postponed if not completely gone. You might as well marry the father of your child so that there are two parents. There are reasons that men sleep with 16 year old girls and while you may be "convinced" that it is love, sweetheart it probably is not and you are going to be a sad little girl one of these days.
So since the question was should you marry him my answer is yes. Marry him at least when he leaves you and your child you can both take him for what he's worth.
2006-12-09 05:17:17
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answered by 1973kimberly 2
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Your way too young, I dont know about marring him , thats your decision. Did he ask you just because your pregnant ? But think about it , if he really loved you he would not have put yourselves in this situation. He's 25 he should know better and for you, tell your parents be honest cause you might need their support later when he p***** off.
2006-12-11 14:41:27
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answered by Calais 4
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i agree with "One Race The Human Race". Definitely talk to your parents. This guy should be arrested!!! What the hell is a 25 year old MAN doing with a 16 year old!!!!
2006-12-09 05:18:58
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answered by 420 5
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To be honest, this is something you should really discuss with your parents. If you feel that would not be a wise idea (some parents have been known to not take the news too well) please speak to your school guidance counselor. Marriage is not something you should just hop into just because you are going to have a child.
2006-12-09 05:12:59
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answered by Anonymous
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wow, 16 sweety.. don't marry him just because he asked and just because you are pregnant. you are soo soo young, and you have your whole life ahead of you. now a days it is very common for mothers to not be married so i dont feel u have to be married to have this child. i mean if things stay great and a few years down the road the two of you are still together and still want to get married then go for it. until then girly, dont do it. wouldnt u rather have waited a couple years then have a divorce under your belt. good luck hun!!
2006-12-09 05:14:04
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answered by dradra336 2
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well, if you love him go for it... this could be a good thing, if you really love him, and what him to be a part of your child's life and your child to have a father.
but, it could be bad, if you dont love him, as much as you thought. just make sure its what you want, because if not, it will make things difficult for everyone, including the child
2006-12-09 07:15:55
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answered by =] 4
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i advise u 2 talk 2 ur parentz
2006-12-09 05:19:55
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answered by Angel Girl 5
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wow i don t think i can tell u what to do its really ur choice do what is in ur heart~!
Happy Holidays
2006-12-09 05:16:57
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answered by neno_93 3
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i think u should give the baby up for adoption. u r way to young to have a baby
2006-12-09 05:13:15
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answered by Anonymous
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