2006-12-09 05:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by khadar a 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What is it that you want from the way your life was before? Why did your life change? Did you change, or did someone else change, or leave?
How long ago was "before?" Are you idealizing or romanticizing the past? That's an easy thing to do, and a common pitfall.
You can't recreate the past, obviously - you've changed, other people have changed or moved on, you might be living in another place, etc.
As long as you're grasping at the past, you can't fully appreciate the present. Cherish your good memories, and learn from what happened in the past--then let it go. Move on.
Build your life now to achieve your current goals and values. They may be related to goals you had in the past. They may not. Making your life "the way it was before" isn't a healthy goal. Identifying the good points of that time and working towards including those in your present life would be better. Were you more social? Maybe a goal would be to go out one night a week. Were you more physically active? Try adding some kind of physical activity to your life a few times a week.
Don't hang any of your goals on another person. You can only control yourself. If you are responsible for a child, taking care of him or needs to be one of the things you consider in your life plan, of course. If you have a life partner, he or she would probably appreciate being part of your planning. But you need to figure out your goals as your goals, then move on to any shared goals.
2006-12-09 05:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by TechnoMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T NO IF YOU NO GOD BUT ASK HIM TO HELP YOU AND IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN HIM HE WILL HELP YOU BUT ASK.SAY A LITTLE PRAYER IN THE DAY OR JUST TALK TO HIM IN THE DAY.YOU NO GOD IS THERE IF YOU WANT TO.HE WONT PHONE YOU, YOU HAVE TO TALK AND THEN JUST LESSEN FOR IS VOICE HE HAS LOST OF POWER FOR ALL IS PRECIOUS CHILDREN'S.AND DO MEDITATION THAT CAN HELP TO.BUT GO AND SEEK PROFESSIONAL THAT HELPS TO YOU NO,CAUSE GOD IS WITH US ALL THE TIME OR HE SEND HELP LIKE ARE GUARDIAN ANGELS YOU WILL FEEL HIM BUT GIVE HIM TIME TO.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND BE WITH YOU.PLEASE DON'T LET YOUR SELF GO SWEET HEART BELIEVE..................OR SEEK A D.R. HELP.
2006-12-09 17:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by cilia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can do anything y set your mind to... if u want to live like before then u have to make evgerything like it was before..no changes allowed....and then u will see everything like it was.
2006-12-09 05:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by rev. needy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't go back, the past no longer exists
2006-12-09 05:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by C W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stuck living in the past, move on you could be learning so such more
2006-12-09 05:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Excuse me, please, but what are you talking about? I would offer an answer if I knew. Sounds like you could really use one....
2006-12-09 05:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Steven Keith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋