2006-12-09 04:46:51 · 40 answers · asked by Imyourfantasy4u 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No! Its actually very, very right.
2006-12-09 04:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by cappync696969 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay, both sides are gonna flag me and hate me, but so be it.
You ask if it's "wrong". That is a question that implies the issues of morality, right? I mean, "right" and "wrong" are moral questions!!! And, if you dig around for a few minutes, you'll figure out that every moral code started out as a religious code somewhere, or perhaps a merger of religious codes. So, we have to talk about religion when we talk about morality.
For 4000 years or so, Judaism, Christianity and Islam have held that sex outside of the confines of marriage (and a whole host of other restrictions) is "wrong." While there is some movement to reconsider this belief, generally speaking those groups still deem it to be "wrong."
Sadly, the religious folks tangle up their homophobia with their beliefs, and start calling down the fires of heaven. Even if you keep gay and lesbian sex on the "unapproved" list, there are always tons of people in any church who do "unapproved" things who are welcomed.
Worse yet, many of them cite all sorts of passages, but then can't tell you why then don't follow other passages -- ie, Year of Jubilee, mildewed cloth, etc.
What I do know (and I'm still working this out in my brain) is that it's always wrong for people to be mistreated, abused, injured or killed for being gay / lesbian. I do know that some religious people are sick nuts, and use their religious beliefs to cover their tracks (or so they think). I know that we should value gays and lesbians for their contributions, even if we don't agree with their lifestyle.
Beyond that, I've got my doubts, and hope that gays and lesbians, as well as my religious friends, will work with me and be patient w/ me as I work things out.
2006-12-09 04:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the only intolerant religion in the world? You know the one that spouts hate, intolerance and will not forgive? Oh yes, that's right - the Christians.
Homosexuality is said to be wrong in the Bible and not acceptable. That is a problem Christians have to deal with within their own congregation. They have no right to dictate or criticise anyone outside of their religion!!!
Christianity is supposed to be about love and forgiveness and those Christians who rant against gays are actually acting wrongly within their religion.
If you are a Christian you have a problem. You can ask for forgiveness and get it but then you still have the problem of being gay and have to ask again and again. That is an enigma. Can you be gay and homosexual within the Christian church? My personal opinion is that you cannot. The religion has it's rules and conditions and therefore you either have to follow them or leave.
Outside of the Christian church people are far more tolerant, accepting and human. Some will have problems accepting it but hey, that is a bigger problem for them than it is for you!!!
Be honest with yourself. Be what you are. You cannot go through life pretending to be something you are not. Be proud and have friends who accept you. Embrace the tolerant and despise the week minded bigots.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-09 05:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't believe the people who tell you that it's 'wrong'. The only wrong things in this world are when you hurt other people or things needlessly and when you are unkind, and when you are not good to yourself.
Being a lesbian does not inherently harm anyone else, and it especially doesn't harm yourself since, if you are attracted to women, and you suppress that, you are likely to be very, very unhappy.
2006-12-09 04:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by probablestars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly their is nothing wrong with lesbian. all that counts is that 2 people love each other it doesnt matter if you are a man or woman. you are still human. their is nothing wrong with that. People should discriminate against it its not like they are taking care of you paying for everything that you want need. Its your life live it however you want to live it what matters is that your happy.
2006-12-09 05:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Vader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like a waste of sensuality. So in that sense, I suppose so. Maybe you just haven't met the right guy? Someone more interested in eliciting maximum response from YOU than in his own orgasms? BTW, putting the other person's needs and wants ahead of his own is called LOVE.
Now if you just prefer mounds to sticks, that's just a matter of preference,
2006-12-09 04:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for someone of the same sex, is that really a crime? People treat gays and lesbians differently but really they are just human beings
2006-12-09 04:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no no...
its neither right nor wrong. its simply who you are... and u cant change that. christians have told us its wrong, however, they tell us alot of ****. if u are gay/lesbian, forget what others say. be who you are, and do what you are here to do. its not gross to be gay, its not stupid, and its not for attention. its just how people are... i myself am straight, but not because i think being gay is stupid, its just how i am. many people are gay that dont know it because they wont let themselves know it, since christians have scared them from being true...
2006-12-09 05:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by jo_elizabeth2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can do it. But dont get pissed off when people make fun of u for it. It is your choice and you know the "consequences". In certain situations, gay people make fun of straight people because they dont accept their lifestlye. If u make a choice, be prepared to deal with the consequences.
2006-12-09 09:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by dlwise92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'll just say that why should u be lesbian. a girl should go for men it's the law of our creation why should we change it?
2006-12-09 04:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Arash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no im a lesbian
2006-12-09 09:09:34 · answer #11 · answered by psycho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋