I think its because I battle with my own weight, and I am jealous. Is there any way I can work on that?
2006-12-09 04:39:11 · 16 answers · asked by mystifyingsilence 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And you posted it here because you think al fat girls are lesbians?
Or what?
2006-12-09 04:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Understand that people are very stupid.
At one time I could never see myself w/ a "fat" lady. And, to tell you the truth, some "fat" women are unattractive due to a whole host of reasons.
However, when I figured out that one could have a wonderful time w/ a "larger" person, my life changed. In fact, sexual enjoyment is not changed with a few extra pounds.
The foundation for being attractive is to be happy and healthy. If you're happy and healthy, and look like you're mentally "with it" (clothes, etc) then you will will attract good people and form good relationships.
If you look unhealthy (ie, any number of starved "supermodels"), or unhappy, then all you will attract is rejection and a few unhealthy dates.
Somewhere I have a picture of me standing between the Playboy Playmates of the year. I have another pic of me in a porn channel booth w/ their stars. I once sat next to a Playboy model for a 4-hour flight, and helped her take care of her baby. A friend of mine had a supermodel career, with national contracts. What I can say is that I'd choose a health, health, but slightly plump woman over a supermodel head case every and any day of the week.
2006-12-09 12:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by geek49203 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they really mean only the weight.
A thin ugly girl won't get any compliments, I bet.
Try thinking about beauty more as a whole than as a weight centered issue.Actually I am convinced that Claudia Schiffer and Cindy Crawford would turn heads even with 20kg added to their current weight.
2006-12-09 12:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Monica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem too, because i also battle with ma weight, i get really jealous too, especially if i'm with ma guy friends and they talk about another girl being hot! i think the solution is to try to build up ur self esteem, and trying to change ur body shape if u dont like the way it is right now. i'm working on that maself! if its any consolation, there's some cute guys out there who like big girls.lol.
2006-12-09 12:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Gabrielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Do you mean to work on that by learning to ignore them? Or, do you mean to work on that by becomming thinner?.
Well, of course, the answer is: Which ever one that might lead to you be healthier; both physically and mentally.
Mentally, learn to ignore a guy who dwells on physical appearences (weight wise). However, that is a very difficult thing to do. So, instead of ignoring "put downs", learn to appreciate those men that are more mental; those who would appreciate your intelligence and personality (warm and compassionate heart) - If you don't have such a heart - "Work on that"
Now, if you want to work on becomming thinner, (my wife just said "tell her about me, and how I lost weight the healthy way").
OK, Ok. We did it by becomming vegetarians.
".Oh, you poor vegetarians. What do you do at a Thanksgiving Dinner"
Guess what? At most Thanksgiving Dinners, there are 18 different things being served. Usually, only one item is meat (turkey) . That's right we can enjoy 17 items at that dinner. Wow! I bet you never thought of that.
And, by the way, most of us vegetarians can have a few pieces of white meat from the turkey.
e-mail me for an even easier way to lose weight. And it is even healthy.
good luck.
How did I do, JJ?
2006-12-09 12:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by MrsOcultyThomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get offended. I'm a pretty thin female and my boyfriend is clinically obese. I love him with all my heart and I think he's the sexiest thing alive. Some people are just close-minded and you have to except it. There are others who think you're beautiful so don't worry about it.
2006-12-09 12:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Misty D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hunny i am 5'3 105 pounds blond hair blue eyes big butt(for a white girl) and 36c boobs i would say I'm just right?? not the case it seems my boyfriend wants me to get breast implants and a barb wire tattoo like Pamela Anderson.... the truth is nobody perfect not even the skinny girls.. You just need to find your inner sexy and work it girl!!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 12:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey do not get upset, as you must know already, just about all guys will check out just about anything that moves..come on..do not get upset..all ..YES ALL females are beautiful in their own right..really this is for sure...
and I bet your very very pretty, so why do you even care if guys look...
smile
good luck
2006-12-10 13:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I don't like skinny girls that much, even though I am thin myself. I like curvy women with big breasts and big butts. I've dated quite a few big women, and they are nice and cuddly and keep me warm at night. I would probably like you too. :)
2006-12-09 17:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by cuteblondecrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is not the time to be offended about anything if it is possible life is not what you make is how you enjoy it,
2006-12-09 12:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by maria fkun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋