I am 4 months preg. and need some tips on what and how to prepare my self for a baby...or what to ezpect...i am still in school in 9th grade and making a b grades...
2006-12-09 04:16:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Babies having babies.Good luck!!!
By the way what's constructive about having a baby at 14!!!
I hate when people try to sugar coat things
BE HONEST!!!
I find it funny that the people condoning this were teenage parents themselves.Not Cool
2006-12-09 04:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bunky 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
The important thing right now is to keep yourself healthy. Having a baby at a younger age can put a lot of stress on the body. Make sure you are taking prenatal vitamins that include plenty of folic acid. Eat lots of lean meats for protein, fruits, and vegetables. Drink plenty of water and make sure you are getting adequate sleep. Try to avoid being around people who smoke, as secondhand smoke can be detrimental for a baby.
You have a lot of big decisions to make. If you plan on keeping the baby, make sure that your family is going to help and support you. Make sure that if your baby will be covered on your parents' health insurance. If not, check into your state benefits to see what is covered. Your school may have a daycare program so that you can continue your studies and graduate. It sounds like you are a very good student...try to keep your grades up so that you can get into college as this will help you get a better paying job in the future so that you can provide your child with a good life. There are lots of grants and scholarships available for good students, so don't think just because you will be a single parent that you can't get a higher education. Many colleges and universities offer childcare and housing options, so check into those when the time comes around.
Don't be afraid to consider all of your options either. There are many couples out there who can't have children biologically and who would love a baby to love and raise. These days, open adoptions are pretty common, so you can still be a presence in your child's life and you are able to have a say in the couple that would adopt your baby.
Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best. You sound like someone who is trying to do the best thing possible for yourself and your baby. I hope everything works out okay for you!
2006-12-09 12:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by KristenOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom will help you get everything you need. Poor girl, just be prepared for some sleepness nights and lots of diaper changes. You will love your baby very much, and you will be able to get through this. Take everything one day at a time. Perhaps since you are due at the end of the school year you could opt out of the last few weeks so you could breastfeed as that is the healthiest for the child. Plus, you will need time to recover and bond with the baby as well. Maybe you could have someone pick up and drop your assignments off.
2006-12-09 12:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by dolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya i got the babies having babies also. So dont let people get to u. Atleast u r keeping ur baby!Well i had my baby at 17.honestly i must just be really lucky but she has been nothing but wonderful.ya u wil have those late nights but ur young u can handle that.But ur family wil be there every step of the way.It is awesome.I think u need to tell the babies daddy's parents.Get on WIC that helps alot and MEDICAID that also helps.Have a baby shower u get lots of things with that.Just stay strong and STAY IN SCHOOL!i had to graduate a year early but it is not impossible dont let people tell you that.Just eat healthy stay strong u are supporting two now. And honestly labor was so easy i would rather do that then get another tattoo i'l tel ya that much! Yes ur body changes it sucks but it is worth it when u look into ur babies eyes knowing ur all they have it is the best good luck and you will do fine and you will have alot of help!take it one day at a time n it will come!
2006-12-09 12:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh people on here sure are rude. Anyway.... you will really start to show soon (if you are not already) and you will need to make sure you keep going to your appointments. You will have to get things ready for the baby. You have to have a car seat or they wont even let you leave the hospital with the baby. Also... check with your school about a teen mothers program. I was in one during my senior year and I loved it. It was full of girls like me (moms) and we only had to go 1 day a week. I actually graduated a week before I had my baby. Congrats on the baby and keep going to school so you can make your child go when they are older. LOL.
2006-12-09 12:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kudos for deciding to have your baby! Everything will be fine. Keep up with all of your appointments. don't drink, smoke or do drugs. Eat healthy foods, avoid caffiene. Stay way from stress, because your baby can feel this, too. Delay arguments, issues that are stressful until your baby is safely born! Exercise daily. Walking and some light weight training would be best. Prepare baby's room, clothes, changing station, car seat, and begin thinking about a babysitter or daycare. Be proud of who you are, and of your child. Trust me, millions and millions, and millions of babies were born to 14 year old girls in centuries past. Our scoiety is doing everything older and older, but this does not mean that you cannot be ready for the responsibility! Mothter Nature says you are. So don't let anyone put doubts in your head. Chill, and take it one day at a time. Best Wishes!
2006-12-09 12:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow I am not here to judge you and the other answers seem like people are. How mean.
Well I was 16 when I had my daughter. Check with your local school board and see if they have a program where someone will watch your child for you. If not go to your local social services and apply for day care help well you are in school.
I hope you realize that you are going to have to give up your social life.
Labor I will tell you right now is going to be the worst pain you ever felt in your life.
I wish you all the best of luck in the world. If you need someone to talk to or to listen you can email me at crazziegrl14@yahoo.com
2006-12-09 12:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by crazziegrl14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my high school they had a day care program for girls that had children in high school. If your school does not have this you would probably qualify for day care vouchers, or your parents could help pay for day care. Whatever happens, stay in school. Keep your grades up so you'll still have a shot at going to college. It not the end of the world...now you just have to make sure you get a good education so when you graduate from college you'll have a decent job lined up so you can support your baby.
2006-12-09 12:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by tangyterp83 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay disregard all the rude comment people cant hold their tongue u asked for advice not critisism okay well ur fourteen so your body isnt rlly mature but ur a very capable of doing this im very proud of u Ur keeping the baby despite what other people have said ur very brave alot of people at ur age go for abortion okay well u could start of by preparing ur self four labour u should take classes for it get as well informed as u can just ssearch on the internet abut labour pregnancy everything that comes to mind
and once u have tht baby u will know i hpe ur mom is gonna be there to help u but ur maternal instict will kik in and good luck if u have ne other questions email me latin_babe_sexy_69@hotmail.com im 17 and my baby is 1 years old so dont worry i understand and good luck
2006-12-09 12:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, try as hard as you can to stay in school and go on to college that is the best thing you can do for your baby. you need to prepare for both of your futures, it may be a while before you are out on your own, but if you can provide well for them it is one less stress! When they are new that sleep like 16 hours a day, babies are pretty easy until they start walking and talking and your motherly instincts will kick in, you will be fine!
2006-12-09 12:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Marcie E 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What i can say is you should of been wearing protection when having sex, better still at your age you shouldn't even be having sexual intercourse.
I think your family will help you with your pregnancy and to prepare because at 14 your still a child and your having a child, the only way you can prepare yourself is by reading up on everything to do with parent hood, plus next time wear protection that's the best way to be prepared.
2006-12-09 12:26:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋