my friends are always going off to each others houses and never inviting me I feel as though I am the one whose always left out.
I don't understand as I am always nice to them and I am a geuinly nice person but these two are nice but not the nicest people they can be a bit off with each other.
Please note that I have a pretty strong character and a good sense of humor but can be a little timid in asking for help or standing up for myself
2006-12-09 04:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by rozzywozzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to be up front with them and ask why didn't they invite you. Whats up with that? If they act funny like girl you are tripping then don't worry about it. But if they look at each other and begin laughing then they obviously like cracking about you behind your back. Focus on yourself because when other friends have a lot in common more than you then you have to demonstrate to your friends different ways they can relate to you. Otherwise know that friends come and go. You can always count your best of friends on 1 hand.
2006-12-09 04:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great idea Sarah.
You might also invite them to attend or take part in some activity you are part of such as a church youth meeting, or group trip to the mall, or school event where you all go together in the same car and sit together. These kinds of 'group' things give all of you opportunities to interact with each other without anyone having to feel left out or different because everybody talks to everybody.
2006-12-09 12:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you can just invite them more to ur house & they will feel the same towards u.Remember to make them have fun at ur house so that they feel that u r an outgoing person and thus,be able to invite u to their house..Maybe u should talk more with them & let them know more about u.And if u have a friend that invites you to his\her house,let them tell these two persons about the good things found in u.Good luck!!
2006-12-09 12:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ..pAniC aTTacks.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being forward, invite all your friends to a party or gathering at your house. Start asking your friends what their plans are for the weekend and tell them you would be interested to because it sounds like fun. But don't overdue the self-invitations and they'll get the point.
2006-12-09 12:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by Green thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rmember those days. My friends would go here and there, and once in a while they remembered I was their "friend". They made it so obvious that they didn't want me around, in fact, they were no longer interested, or ever were, in being friends with me. I just left them. I stopped hanging out with them. I went out and looked for new friends. Although I do not have an abundance of friends, I am happy with the ones I've now. You should do the same.
One of my "so-called" friends asked me at school why I don't hang out with them any more...to me, his question sounded so stupid that I wanted hang him on a tree...but I told him, "You never invited me anywhere, and if I came along you would pretend I was not with you". I also told him that they didn't deserve to have me around, when they were being bunch of pricks.
2006-12-09 12:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok try telling your friends that you are feeling left out, if you tell them and they are still leaving you out then you should find yourself some real friends who want to have you around and want to hang out with you. What your friends well should I say your so called friends are doing is that fair and not friend like. It sounds like maybe they dont want you around but dont say it to your face because they dont want to hurt your feelings. You want to be around people who want you around.
2006-12-09 12:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real true honest friends,do not leave you out,they include you in everything they can.So with that sounds like you might some friends that will treat you with some respect,instead of hurting your feelings.You can write me anytime,I wont diss you. :)We all need at least one good friend, tell them bu bye.
2006-12-09 12:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Summer :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just ask them why, you are not invited. I see no problem of you finding other friends that would enjoy your company.
2006-12-09 12:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're allowed to, try inviting them to your house first and maybe they'll start thinking about inviting you over to their place
2006-12-09 12:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sarahie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋