My boyfriend used to be really nice with me.. but now hes kind of careless...he never takes me out.. n everytime i asked him why he didnt take me out.. he wuld tell me dats because he dint hav a job.. but he has a job now...im waitin for him to take me out tomorrow. if he doesnt take me out . wut shud i do?. wut does it mean?
2006-12-09 04:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by Svetlana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's tired of you and has moved on to another chick but just doesn't have the balls to end it with you!
2006-12-09 04:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are focusing on the wrong thing. If the guy just got a job then let him accumulate some cash to take you out. If you keep nagging him about taking you out, then you are pushing him away and he might very well cheat on yo *** to get back at you. You need to let him go if your relationship is causing all this drama.
2006-12-09 04:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAG HUNNY!!!!
Iam not saying hes cheating but all signs point to him losing interest...ask him straight up if hes cheating if he says no then set him up get a friend he doesn't know you are friends with and have her walk up to him and hit on him if the exchange numbers you can either call him out right there or wait and see what he does "like take her out"
2006-12-09 04:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to hurt your feelings, but, the no. 1 clue is that wahat you mentioned........ your BF being "weird" with you! That's called "out of character!"
I've seen it in one of my past relationships too.
Yes, also if he isn't taking you out with him, he has found someone else. I also had that happen as well.
Find someone new. What ever your hobbies are, go to places you can meet other people, and chances are, you will meet honest ones. give it a try.
2006-12-09 04:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slave: well according to your boyfriend he is not a type of
an guy that yourself shouldn't have any more.See sharing things
must be the same were activities like mine would be hiking
camping fishing, mountainbikeridding horsebackridding
bowling, golf ! get involved be part of out door fun
great idea sure there is something for you try http://www.outdoorsports/activities.com
2006-12-09 04:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he isnt paying a whole lot of attention to the situation, or he doesnt want to. so i think it could also be a possibility that he is cheating on you. sounds like if he is already acting that way then i would dump him and find someone responsible
2006-12-09 04:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not enough to speculate, and speculating is dangerous. However, his just lack of interest in you is enough in and of itself to pack your bags. If he's too busy for you for whatever reason, then you should find something better.
Him having a job or not is irrelevant. You aren't a prostitute, your company doesn't cost him a dime.
2006-12-09 04:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweethearth you are right. The man is cheating on someone new, maybe someone a little better than you, better check it out.
2006-12-09 04:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds serios although this is only that, it sounds although the doubt is in elementary words one step of being the fact so that you could confrontate him and ask him many questions, and note his reactions and also you're taking your decision upon that
2016-11-30 08:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend! This guy is very immature and selfish!
2006-12-09 04:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll find out is if you talk to him about it. Don't jump to conclusions.
2006-12-09 04:10:26 · answer #11 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋