I just fount out my hubby is cheating again with this girl on yahoo witch is amieeg_2005. Now she knew of me and when i ask her was they ******* around and she told me no but come to find out that she was lying to me. I am so piss right now I am afraid on what i might do .Me and my hubby been together for 12 years and have 4 kids together and belivie me he did not stay with me for the kids. all this time him and her been lying to me I left him about a week ago and he still dening he every **** around with her and she was a stoker etc etc But I am not stupid anymore eveing though it hurt to leave him i have to because i deserve better. What come around come back around twice as hard both of them hoes belong together (Vent)
2006-12-09 03:25:24 · 18 answers · asked by Belivia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you everyone for your comments You put a smile on my face. This is his secound time cheating on me. And he always promise that he will change. It's was nothing in our marriage to me , to think he would do it again we **** almost everyday but No head jod LOL maybe that's what it was,but he cheated and i thought he did not deserve that servace. His dad was the same way a hood rat so i guess he got it from his daddy I just hope my son don't end up like them. The **** up part is my kids Know now that i left him and i see it in my daughter face she hurt. What can i tell her I don't want her to think it's my fault.
2006-12-09 13:56:19 · update #1
Usually when a man cheats, the women immediately go after the woman that he cheated with and keep him off the hook. That's bullshit because most of the time the other girl never knows that she is the other girl. BUT in your case, I would beat that hoes a$$. And my husbands. If it was the first time this ever happened, I might work it out with him. Might. Small chance. The second time? Divorce him and take everything he has and hold him by his freakin balls. And still beat the b!tches @ss.
2006-12-09 03:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Belivia, you did the right thing. YOU GO GIRL! Sorry, always wanted to say that! I understand the need to vent. I also am pleased I don't need to give you advice, you already know what to do. And you're doing it now by leaving him. Good Luck from this moment on! Things won't be easy, but you won't feel abused in the relationship anymore! Keep us apprised of your progress! This will help other women and us guys for that matter, who has to deal with cheating spouses.
2006-12-09 03:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you mean by cheating. If you mean internet cheating.. (chatting but no physical contact), then there may be hope thru communication and honesty. If you mean cheating through physical contact.. then divorce him... (and take him to the cleaners in the process) and then I'd make the girls life a living hell. In reality.. sounds like you would be the one coming out of this better anyway. Reminds me of a joke... I got back at the women who cheated with my husband... I let her keep him. Good luck to you. Stay strong and don't let anyone treat you this way!
2006-12-09 04:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by girlgriffin711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. first of all, props to putting her screen name out there! You should bust open the people who cheat with other people's men, especially the ones who know you and lie to your face! Second of all, I believe that happily married men don't cheat. There is something underlying in your relationship that he gets from her that he's not getting from you. This is a lack of communication on his part. hell no he shouldn't have gotten it elsewhere. You need to put your anger aside for right now and figure out your next step. You say there are 4 kids involved. You have to put them first. If you want to make it work, try counseling. Otherwise, file for separation and move on with your life. Once you have it figured out, find an outlet for your anger..preferably not around your kids. Try a local support group or an online one. Good luck! And don't put up with his lies and crap!
2006-12-09 03:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by skybelle24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the blame lies with your husband, he made the choice, although sometimes the first thing we want to do is go after the other woman, as she did know he was married. but keep your dignity, the more u try to hurt her, the worse u will feel. show you have confidence, and self worth, it does hurt to leave him, but if it had not been her it would have been someone else, cause the cheating began in his own heart, and in his thoughts. can't do anything with other women who go after our husband's, cause he decided to do it. just let them have eachother, as u will never be able to trust him again. he won't come clean with the truth, so if he won't admit there is a problem, or admit all this has hurt u, hold your head up high and divorce him. personally i would never dignify what he did and go after the other woman, only shows our ignorance.
2006-12-09 06:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the case, then you have done the right thing. 12 years is a long time to spend together, and for him to cheat on you now is just not on. Let him feel the pain as well. You go girl.
2006-12-09 03:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing to leave. He is not respecting you what so ever. You deserve better and hope when you close this chapter of your life, move forward on lifes journey you see what a real man does and treat a lady. Let he two of them have one another!
2006-12-09 03:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd punch the girl out on sight, I mean, really "Clean her clock", then I'd find a guy to be friends with and maybe relationship potential.
I'd forget about the Husband! He'd keep cheating!
2006-12-09 03:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hubby is cheating then its your hubbys problem...dont look at yourself and say it was me because most men are pigs..the saying is women need love and attention and men need a place..just tell the hubby good bye and move on ...or if you realy want to screw him up go on a date with a woman and tell him that she was the best sex you have ever had...that she satisfied you beyond any thing he could ever do..that will realy screw his head on backwards...good luck
2006-12-09 03:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by punkinhead0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know you know, gather up evidence of the affair and document it. Save it for divorce court so you can get the kids and a hefty alimony payment.
2006-12-09 03:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Achaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋