my step dad is making me move to lousville and i have a boyfriend here what should i do.....p.s. i have to work a hundred hours to move ... everyone dose in my house.
2006-12-09 03:22:53 · 15 answers · asked by monkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My parents made me move with them to a different city when I was a teenager in high school too. It was really difficult, but your life is not going to end. Depending where you live now and how far it is from where you are moving to, the relationship may have a chance for survival. You don't have to automatically break up with him just because you are moving. Talk to him and see how he feels about it and what he wants to do. Keep in touch, call him and/or email him daily if possible. See how it goes, if it's meant to last then it will. Good luck with the move and meeting new friends! It will get easier.
2006-12-09 03:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wahhhhh! wahhhh!! want some cheese with that whine?
You can find a new bf in Louisville. You can still talk to the other. Agree to see other people while you are apart and if it is really meant to be, you can hook back up later down the road.
Chances are your step dad is making you move because there is a better job or opportunity there which will benefit the whole family. The whole family has to work to move so stop complaining about it and think about the big picture.
2006-12-09 03:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Achaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many variables. Let's just assume your too young to be on your own. Then your only recourse is to move. It's not a popular choice, but the responsible one. What's the alternative? Running away? That's just stupid. You don't sound stupid! However, there really isn't an alternative. Really! Just accept your situation and help the family. If your b/f really likes you distance will not matter all that much. I don't think it's going to make it though. So be prepared. Good Luck!
2006-12-09 03:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean making you? Are you old enough to be on your own? Are there people that you can stay with? By the way are you in love with your boyfriend, is he worth parting away from your family? You to ask yourself alot more questions before you make any decisions and perhaps you already have but didn't disclose that to us. Good luck!
2006-12-09 03:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by cellomaticus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 08:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your dad if you can take a 2-3 hr break to see your bf then ask him: if someone was holding you back from your mom ( like a move ) what would you do to be with her and this is so unfair.
your dad will understand love bc he has been thro it himself oh and with your time go out with you bf to a movie and tell him gooby + how far are you moving bc if not to far you can e-mail and visit every so often
2006-12-09 03:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by GuNthEr'S_girl►♦♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance is tough. I'm not sure how old you are so maybe getting your own place where you currently live is out of the question. I say move. If your relationship can weather long distance, you have a good shot of making it.
2006-12-09 03:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by skybelle24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in your shoes i would just pray about the situation know that everything happens for a reason sometimes things seems bad but trust me it will end up for the good
2006-12-09 03:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out of your family house
move in with him
have his kids
Stay home and make cherry pies all day
Thats the american way
2006-12-09 03:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by detox_denny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason...trust me. So if it is meant to be then it will be. I know it sucks and it hurts but if you are meant to be you will make it. Good luck.
2006-12-09 03:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋