2006-12-09 03:10:12 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A few different things.
1. she's unhappy
2. she's not sexually pleased
3. she's being abused
4. she isn't in love any longer
5. there's nothing in the marriage keeping her faithful.
6. hubby don't work
7. hubby refuses to try along side her and make it work.
On rare occassions, it's just a need within someones head that they cheat. But most of the time it takes the "2" of you in the marriage to make the other high tail it and cheat.
Look within yourself also and see what it is that you feel she is cheating other than the obvious.
2006-12-09 03:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my husband. It would not be worth losing a loving relationship for a couple minutes worth of meaningless sex. I know women that have cheated and it was because the husband was not affectionate and mentally abusive. I guess some women stray but probably because they are not happy at home. would be my thought
2006-12-09 03:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well my advice to you is that a woman is very sensitive and we always love attention from the spouse. If you don't give that attention she feel like she can get it from another man. cheating really start with minor things like helping with the children cleaning up around the house and playing your part as a husband. so maybe men need to be more open, involved and understand the relationship when entering a marriage.
2006-12-09 03:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Declining morals, and a husband she can't be proud of. Lets face it. The Morals out there today are a joke! If you want to be the same as your peers you have to be headed for a sure demise! A wife needs several things, Security, Love, Family structure.... the list goes on, however, a wife who cheats has been taught this is acceptable. One can live with a multitude of problems, and still love the one they are with exclusively. Once morals decline, your screwed! Simply put!
2006-12-09 03:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too many reasons to count. It's very easy to say that a person who cheats on their spouse is a selfish creep, only thinking of themselves without caring who they hurt--and no doubt this is the reason sometimes. But not always. Sometimes it happens because a person is absolutely miserable in their marriage: ignored, abused, mistreated, lonely . . . so they go outside the marriage for comfort. In a perfect world, probably a person in the latter situation would just leave . . . but no, in a perfect world, they would not be in a miserable marriage in the first place.
2006-12-09 08:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she getting , what you gave her before the marriage, she could feel like you are cheating on her ,do you work long hours, and is not there for her.has the passion in the bed room change, to just a quickie, and woman needs to know you love her, in words and action, this is true for both of you the same thing it took the get her, or him, it takes the same things to keep them.i am only telling you these thing because that is , why i had started looking out side of my marriage, i did not cheat, because we set down and talked openly and honest. and we found out it were both of use changing, now my marriage is better, that the day we got married. i truly hope this help, search in your heart, to see if your marriage wrought fighting for. may god bless you and her, and i hope you can save your marriage, if that's what you want.
2006-12-09 03:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons, sometimes the husband refuses to listen, and it makes a women feel unaccepted. Acceptance, and security are two of the four basic fundamentals. "Go Figure!"
2006-12-09 04:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any number of things, maybe her husband is too caught up with himself to be concerned about her. Maybe she feels lonely. Whatever. What makes a man cheat???
2006-12-09 03:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, in retrospect, I would never do it again... But for me it was a combination of many things. He was never home, never interested in anything that we did throughout the day, was mean and angry all the time, we only made love when it was what he wanted, then only how he wanted... Our entire lives were all about him, everything that happened. We ate what he wanted for dinner, went to the movie he wanted to see, watched his shows on TV, listened to his music at night... I felt so trapped, so lonely, and so desperate for affection. I wanted just one thing in my life to be about me, I just needed someone to tell me that I mattered, too. When someone did, my heart clouded my mind's judgment and I made the wrong choice... At that time, though, it seemed like the perfect escape- the charming knight come to rescue the damsel in distress... Too bad he rented the knight suit from Losers-R-Us...
2006-12-09 03:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Butterfly ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lack of attention........Please show some rspect and love for your wife try not to put her down so much...i mean if if you come home and the whol house is clena please dont throw your clothes......etc all over the floor if you mess something up please clean it up and sometime out of that day tell your wife you appreciate her and hold her and console her sometime...Women LIKEWISE..let your man no you appreciate what he do.........Selfish lack of security i mean just love each other take cre love and nourish each others needs i mean of course marriage is hard but you have to work at it...i have been married for almost 5years and it has not been easy pray for one another....A family that prays together stay together...
2006-12-09 03:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mom of 3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋