He is doing his own thing, him and his porn & hand. Leaving me to take care of my own needs as well. Im tired of this arrangement! How much can a girl take? it has been 10 months now. and before that it was 12months.!
He doesn't want to discuss the issue. I Guess he doesn't see that there is a problem??!! I think he is addicted to porn/masterbation!!?? he only does these things alone- excluding me ! WHY WOULD HE DO THIS?
2006-12-09 03:03:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mikez Bad Girl soCal 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Have you suggested professional help to him, or counseling for the both of you? sounds like you need to give him a ultamatum, get help, or its over.. If you really love him and he loves you, hopefully he will be receptive to this and will wake him up.
2006-12-09 03:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by texasguy11656 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why he would do that..... BUT you can take a off the wall approach, Tell him how you are feeling, also that your needs are being neglected and has been for almost 2 years. Let him know that something HAS to change. Tell him that either he starts to fulfill your needs as a woman. Ask him if he has a problem with doing that and if yes, What is the problem. Then tell him that if he does not take care of you and your womanly needs that you will be left to find a man on the side that will.... tell him he can watch and get his fetish fix while you are being satisfied..... See how he likes that one. Maybe then he will talk to you seriously about it. Sometimes you must play hard ball with some of the men out there.... and if you can't beat them, have him watch.
I know it is not conventional but ya never know maybe it will work out one way or the other. I hope this helps, and yeah I know it is thinking out of the box, but it seems he has been doing that for almost 2 years now any ways.
2006-12-09 11:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you married to this Neanderthal? If so, you two need marriage counselling asap for sexual incombatibility concerns.
If you aren't married to this guy, then dump him immediately. It amazes me that some guys have a real live vagina begging for attention, but they would rather jerk off to porn. Dumb! How can that be better than making love with a real woman?
He's doing this because you no longer turn him on. Time to unload him and find someone who will appreciate you and desire you the way you need and deserve.
The more I think about this, get out of the relationship asap.
2006-12-09 11:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best advise has been given by 98 percent of the people who have answered.
You don't need someone like him. Most men masturbate and watch porn, even when in a relationship, but not to the extent that they avoid or neglect their partner.This is not normal and you don't need to be treated this way.
2006-12-09 11:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dale 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should go find someone that can actually satisfy your needs. If he'd rather have porn that a real flesh and blood woman then he has some problems you don't need to be dragged into.
2006-12-09 11:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps...and I am not saying this to be mean....he is desiring something a little different in the boudoir? See if you can come on to him one night with something a little more "porn star-esque" Flip the main power switch on your house at night so he can't watch videos, the computer, or look at magazines. Try role playing, anal, whips, ect. See what could spark his interest. If he is still poopin' out on you, you might suggest counsiling. If worse comes to worse and this situation truly drives you up a wall, perhaps it is time to move on.
2006-12-09 11:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Maximus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's terrible hun. Ditch the guy and find a man that can satisfy your needs.. I'd be offended especially considering how long it's been going on.
2006-12-09 11:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Em 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because he is an idiot. Leave him. Any guy that prefers playing with himself in front of a machine instead of having sex with a REAL woman is a moron. Move on.
2006-12-09 11:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Paul H 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why don't to start a new episode by offering your hand to shake him?
Go shake it baby!!!.
Husbands develops such odd habits or fantasies some time during the married life. I heard the same habit some time back but a girl masturbating herself!!! The suggested trick worked.
i hope it might work in your case too.
2006-12-09 12:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by trennto 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because you and your body aren't able to satisfy his lust!
It's not a criticism or an offense toward you, but you know what the kindred spirit is and as it's important to find the righter partner for us. Evidently you aren't the right gurl for him as well as he won't be the right guy for you. Yep, he could be addicted to the wan.king but a girl more sex-craved and luxurious might change the situation.
2006-12-09 11:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋