I was in a relationship for 2 yrs. Usually I breaks it off with her but I'd come right back- her tears. She loved me so much, I couldn't get away. I don't think I really wanted to be with a female not serious. I felt bad because she got my name tatooed on her neck, so I always felt like it was my place to stay. I've felt so much pain and I didn't want her too feel it she's younger than me. Now that she's gone I should be thrilled but I'm not, why? I used to treat her so bad the things I'd say was unreal- I was so depressed and I felt like my spirit was being pulled down. I know the relationship was bad because I didn't want to hurt her so I let her hurt me but still I hurted her too with the things I'd say. She abused me physically once- thats when I died inside- she never did it again she claims. She doesn't love me no more because she's tired. I always made her cry but its because of this new girl, please help me- what should I do? What's wrong with me? Am I in love with her?
2006-12-09 03:00:39 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you've got issues, and you truly need to work on them!!!!!!
2006-12-09 03:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you no longer have a victim. That may make you feel badly. You did the right thing, you broke up. Something that bad cannot always be fixed and the pain still remains years later. You're going through a grieving process, it's very normal, even if you didn't want the relationship you're removing someone from your life, it's not easy, but you'll be fine, and it's ok to feel that way. It doesn't' seem like it was a good relationship, so it doesn't mean that because you're going through normal stages of breaking up, that you have to get back together. It will get better, don't worry
2006-12-09 11:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant seem to accept that you can cause that much pain to a person, but suck it up...because you just did.
If you knew it was the best for both of you, then you should'nt ever regret the choice you made. Live on life and dont look back becuz it would only make you feel guilty even more.
You did what you thought was right, its for the best...
2006-12-09 11:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are in love. You wanted to be with a woman but you didn't want it to be serious at first, but now you want it to be serious. You miss what you had, you took it for granted. I believe you wanted to,but you were probably afraid to show you true feelings towards her. I would talk to her and let her know. Don't let no one hurt you physically like that no more. I am bi and I struggle with somethings, and try to fight off certain situations that may seem unrealistic. Just keep it real.
2006-12-09 11:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound terribly confused. If you're miserable, it's not a matter of love. But rather one who needs to know when a relationship is NOT a relationship.
2006-12-09 11:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can say is to move on, she found someone else and she happy let her be. theres other fishes in the sea.
2006-12-09 11:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋