how come some men stay with a woman that has and still cheats they have a home together but my sons clothes are at my house takes and shower here at home then goes there and sleeps im confused
2006-12-09 02:44:52 · 6 answers · asked by nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Inside, he knows it not going to work. I know because when I do live with somebody and have doubts about it, I will leave important things at my mothers where they are safe. Plus as you say things are not great at his g/f house so leaving clothes and stuff at your house gives him a perfect reason to get out of there. He is probably at that stage where he just can't seem to make up his mind about their relationship. I say as long as his stuff is not in the way let him keep there, that way he knows mama loves him and that he is always welcome to leave the cheating girlfriend and come home. Its all a security issue.
2006-12-09 03:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom, do yourself a favor and mind your own business. Why would you be so preoccupied with what your son and his girlfriend are doing. Stay out of it and allow them to live their lives. None of your business he is grown. God bless****
2006-12-09 10:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like their relationship is in serious trouble. I would confront hi in a gentle way, just asking him if everything is alright.
I would also make sure that his kid is OK.
2006-12-09 10:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by ienjoydrawingflowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice would be for you to saty out of it. i'm not trying to be mean but he has to want to leave the girl alone and if don't then they will just say you are up in their business. and maybe his stuff is at your house because he has exit plans.
goodluck
2006-12-09 11:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probly wants you to feel happy that he is listening to what you tell him to do. he porbly goes round to his house(were the kid/ g/f is) to try and sort things out and have sex. he probly wants to be in control of the relationship
2006-12-09 10:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by jane w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is none of your concern. If this child is his then he should be doing the responsible thing. But, your interfering doesn't help!!!
2006-12-09 10:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋