2006-12-09 02:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by mercedes_passion 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
YES YOU ARE RIGHT DEAR THAT IS THE REASON WE SAY FIRST THINK AND THE SPEAK.
2006-12-11 18:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Words that you use reflects what type of person you are. For instance, you don't sense malice or any offense if Mother Teresa speaks, neither The Pope or Mahatma Ghandi, but of course, try listening to some of George Bush's speeches. Then, you will be able to see how words reflect their personalities.
Negative words are used maybe because the speaker has insufficient vocabulary or speaking skills, especially when he or she needs to emphasize very much on something. So he or she says, " The pyramids are ******* big!" , instead of "those pyramids are majestic!"
OR, it's just an "in" thing (for them).
2006-12-09 10:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Vile Maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By negative words I'll suppose you include cursing. When ever I curse in a conversation to get my point across is usually for the following reasons.
Frustration with the lack of understanding by other people in the conversation. These people are "pseudo" intellectuals and can just be very annoying when they fight a point about which they are not knowledgeable.
Anger because certain people think that by interrupting my sentences they can destroy my points and make their points more valid.
I very often use curses to make my point such as, "F.cking is not the same as making love because all the tenderness of the sex act has been removed".
And last but not the complete list is the fact that at that moment in time I may be physically tired or not that well prepared to be in that conversation.
2006-12-09 10:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by oldtimer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
negative words are a must, simply because it can't all be positive words. If there wasn't, we wouldn't be able to do things like tell how icky we feel when sick. But we think in words, so if we are pessimistic, the negative comes more easy, and vice-versa with optimistic.
2006-12-09 11:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychologically it's very true.sound confidence so that u can gain confidence.
Negative words are not used by all only few and it may sound harsh to say the truth
2006-12-09 10:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because what we say comes from our hearts and therefore it may become a habit an eventually forms our character.
2006-12-09 10:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it dosent affect our mind when we use it...it hurts after we use it and make a big mistake...
2006-12-09 10:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Spirit of ~^Spirituality^~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont get it!!!
2006-12-09 10:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋