I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I've had all sorts of problems with relationships in the past and I'm about to just give up. I have a son and he is first and foremost in my life my x husband doesn't want anything to do with me and I know its gonna hurt my son in the long run. I live with my boyfriend and only live with him for 2 months now. He's really getting on my nerves, I have had some very awful experiences like 2 divorces that were caused by distant relationships (thats army people for ya). My x husband owes me almost $11,000 dollars in court ordered child support and property cuz he took everything. My mom is a compulsive gambler and my boyfriend new that so he told me to have me and my son live with him.I thought it would be good but, its not. boyfriends gonna lose his house, he drinks his sorrows away which I don't like around my son. and always wants sex and to touch my boobs. he's lazy.I love him but, I think I need to be on my own. Need advise what to do.
2006-12-09 02:13:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just went through bankruptcy and it's really slim to get a place right now until I get my taxes back. I start back in college beginning of next year to get more income. I know I can get housing assistance but section 8 has a really long waiting list about 2 years long. can't live with my mom cuz she steals my money. How do I tell my boyfriend that I need some space, and I need to live on my own? He's very insecure about himself right now and says leaving him would be the worst thing to do for him.
2006-12-09 02:18:05 · update #1
sad story - you have to take responsability for your self and son - leave your boyfriend, get a job and live on your own
2006-12-09 02:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to rely on yourself, rather than others. I've been in the same boat recently, loving someone who doesn't treat me right. It's been hard, but I've ended it - putting myself and my happiness first. You should do the same - for the sake of your child. How can you say that you love a guy who's lazy, disrespectful of you - treating you like a sex-toy, and being wreckless around your child. ? I know - it doesn't make any sense to stay with him. Be strong - and Good Luck.
2006-12-09 03:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to stop the repetitive path that you seem to always be taking...you actually answered you own question "I think I need to be on my own"..My advice start focusing on yourself and your son...try being independent..You will feel so much better about yourself....
2006-12-09 02:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situations of convenience never work. Get out on your own. Like yesterday!
2006-12-09 02:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋