I've just read a question from a girl who lost her mom, and I suddenly want to cry. I'm too afraid of losing my mom. My mom is a VVIP person in my life. She's more than a woman wo gave me birth and raised me. I love her so much, more than anyone in this world. I always want her to be happy. I never say "I Love You" to her, but I know and she knows that we love each other. I never want to lose her, and I always pray to God so I could die before her, because I'm sure that I'll kill myself if I lose her. I sometimes cried at night, thinking of what my life would be if she's gone. Are you afraid of losing someone you love the most? Who is she/he?
Are you as afraid as I am?
2006-12-09 02:12:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That is very sweet of you to feel so deeply. Everyone is afraid of losing someone. If you don't, you're immature. Obviously you love someone, and you want them to live forever. You know they'll have to go at some point, but you don't want to know it now. That's fine. And you know what, you don't want to die before your mom. The circle of life basically tries to avoid it. And, It will cause you mom more pain then you would ever imagine. Parents aren't supposed to bury their children. I understand how you feel. Your mom is lucky you love her that much, but parents need their kids to survive. You'll find a new love, and though your love for your mom is strong, you will find it is okay to say goodbye at some point. ;)
2006-12-09 02:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by otter7 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've already lost two people in my life and it was very hard. My friend passed away in a car accident, and my grandmother died of lung cancer. Whenever I go to visit my grandfather, it's really hard because I have to be strong for him but sometimes I just can't hold it in. I know my grandmother had been suffering when she was alive, so she's in a good place now, but I just miss her so much. I cried for several months after the car accident because I just couldn't believe it. It happened so fast.
But death happens to everyone. No one gets out of this world alive. When you lose a loved one, you should grieve until you don't have any more pain. Once the pain is gone, what's left are the sweet and good memories you have of your loved one who has passed. Cherish those memories and remember the good times you had with your loved one. You can't live your life crying for someone who isn't coming back. Worrying about a loved one who is still alive isn't doing you any good. Enjoy the time you have with your mother. She probably doesn't want you to worry, so don't. You should be living life to the fullest.
2006-12-09 02:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have lost them, my father about 8 years ago. While it was the hardest thing for me to have ever gone through I know he would not have wanted me to go first. The natural way of things is the parent not the child,your mother would want it that way. Life is hard but we all must lose who we love it is the way it is and ther is noway to change that. I still love and miss my dad everyday,but I know he is with me and always will be, you just have to accept not forget and live your life to the fullest.You cannot dwell on the fact that someday your loved ones will depart this world without you,just enjoy them while you have them.Even though love may be a hard word to say you can still express it in so many ways
2006-12-09 02:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Wish 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes...my dad and my mom but my dad the most because he is becoming very old and getting older really fast and his job makes him travel all over the U.S. and when he comes back to see me which takes about 3 or more months he only has like a week to spend with me before he leaves again and whenever he does leave I get so scared that I will never see him again. I cry so many times thinking about what I would have to do without him....It is the worst feeling in the world becasue I love him so much and I never want him to leave me again...I hope he makes it home for christmas o.k.......... :-(
2006-12-09 02:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by krazykat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid of losing my mom. I have been taking care of her for a couple of years now, she is in and out of the hospital, and I know we don't have many more years together. Even though I think that I would die without her, I know I would just have to carry on, and take care of my three boys. You need to try and quit thinking about losing her, and make the most of the time you have together. Death is inevitable, so there is no need to dwell on it. I also don't think your mom would want you to kill yourself, because of her death. She would probably want you to live a great life.
2006-12-09 02:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Barbi W 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, we are all afraid of losing our loved ones...
Just pray that God would give us enough strength and wisdom
to accept the inevitable and to move on and go on in life...
Remember, goodbyes are not forever...
2006-12-09 02:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah my family i cry and think how it would be if they were dead and my mom fainted 2 times a month ago and i was crying luckly she is still alive and i am happy but i still cry to think that my family is dead i love my baby brother and my dad also i do not want to lose them you r making my cry about this situation but it is okay i know how it feels i will pray for you also i really hope i helpd bye
2006-12-09 02:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am absolutely terrified of losing my husband, my life would be nothing without him, I love him beyond words, he is my life.
Please never be afraid of telling your mom you love her, just ring her up now or go see her and tell her you love her, it costs nothing and its very easy to say, I wish I still had my mom here to say those words to.
2006-12-09 05:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not worried about losing someone it cant be helped so no point in worrying over it. as long as the people you love know it you cant do anymore than that !!!
2006-12-09 03:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid, but I also believe in living life for the moment.
2006-12-09 02:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋