The feeling will hit you hard and will never let up. You'll think of that person day and night, want to be with only them, you'll be able to forgive them of silly things that you would have otherwise busted someone else's chops over. You will TRUST them. You'll get butterflies whenever they smile or you see them approaching. You will be truthful to them about everything. Most of all, you'll know the feeling is mutual from them as well and you won't doubt it. You will be patient with them. They will show patience to you. There will be no doubting at all between the two of you. Nothing else will matter in life to the point that you're happy. You'll never speak ill of them to your friends or family. You'll only feel and say wonderful things for and about your companion. You won't be able to imagine life without them...and you'll know they feel the exact same way as you. You'll enjoy doing the same things. You'll enjoy talking to each other. You'll feel a connection that you might not have felt before with anyone else. Both of you will have an intensity of love that would make you sacrifice any and everything for the other one. But the feeling has to be mutual with no lying or deception involved. The small stuff doesn't matter. You're afraid when that person is just a few minutes late coming home. They call you or leave you notes telling you how much you mean to them. The flaws that both of you have are overlooked. Laughter and sense of humor are very important. You never make demands on each other...you never demean each other or say something is stupid that the other one likes to do. You don't feel jealousy (it's true..because you TRUST that person). The other person is kind to you when you're sick, vice versa. You would never think of going anywhere without each other because you present yourselves to the world as a bonded pair.
The only difference between "the one" and "temporary insanity" is that it never sours...for all of your years. That's why people should wait a good long time before getting married...to make sure that there's no change in either person's feelings, personality or actions.
True love with "the one" is something you will feel with an intensity...because your feelings are so strong but more importantly, because you can feel it from the other person.
My husband and I always say that it sure would suck if our love was one-sided. The way we are with each other is scary to other people sometimes. If only one of us felt the way we do, and the other one didn't, someone would be going to jail for stalking and harassment...or killing the other person.
We both also believe that we can appreciate each other more because of the horrible people we have encountered along the way. We've had some really nasty relationships that ended miserably and affected us...but that made us the people we are today with the ability to appreciate what we have in each other.
We will be buried side by side on the same day, because the day that one of us dies, the other one will follow immediately therafter. There would be nothing left to live for.
It's that intense.
2006-12-09 02:24:16
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answered by Chick-A- Deedle 6
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My wife and I both knew as soon as we met each other and got to know each other that is was meant to be. And after dating for about half a year, we were married. We have been married for almost 7 years now (our anniversary is on New Year's Eve - I picked it so I will never forget it) and although we've had our share of fights, and arguements, we are still going strong, and have a wonderful boy of 3 1/2 years. When you meet that special someone, it's just like real magic - it hits you like a bolt of lightning.
2006-12-09 02:10:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes I have, and when I met him I just knew. It sounds so cheesy but it was love at first sight. As soon as we were introduced something told me that I was going to marry him. I have had long term relationships in the past and always thought I was in love, true love anyway, and that we would spend the rest of our lives together but when I met my husband it was different. He told me later that he felt the same way the first night we met. We were engaged after about 2 months. I have never been happier and all of my friends tell me that all the time.
2006-12-09 02:06:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I just started a new relationship so we are still in the running-in-slow-motion-through-a-field-of-flowers moment. If this feeling continues then yes, I could see spending forever with him
2006-12-09 02:05:55
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answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6
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properly, there are some contacts I knew in guy or woman in the previous they have been given on YA, yet I even have yet to fulfill anybody in guy or woman who I met on YA. I even have plans to fulfill some next month :o)
2016-10-18 00:38:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I wish, sometimes you're just so sure that youv'e met the person that completes you, and it's all a lie, and others you think someone is a nobody, then find out to late, that they could have been your somebody. Only time will tell you who is ment to be.
2006-12-09 02:02:52
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answered by cher 3
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yes i met her already. my girlfriend we've been through a lot this 10 years. up's and down's, and she's seen me in my worst and best times. and she accept me even though ive done stupid things. so i can't imagine living with somebody else. she's the one. my only one!
2006-12-09 02:10:36
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answered by omeng_ski 3
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Yep, my hubby. It wasn't one thing that made me know, it was many things over the 5 years before we got married.
2006-12-09 02:07:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, my husband. We've been together now for 12 years.
2006-12-09 02:00:07
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answered by Anonymous
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I thought I did but I guess I was wrong.
2006-12-09 02:05:13
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answered by Meeya 7
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