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2006-12-09 00:13:55 · 10 answers · asked by rashid a 1 in Dining Out India Chennai

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Do you mean make a lover happy? Or be a good lover?
Be perfect. Not look for your own enjoyment but see what you can give. Giving happiness is the reward in it self. You have to be like God. He does not want anything for Himself. He makes everyone happy. That is why He is worshipped.It is very easy to be a LAVTA (one who takes) but we have to make effort to be a Devta (one who gives).Go for it.You can do it!!

2006-12-09 03:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Lovers are the people you love.
Meet them.
Be kind, Cuddling, romantic and talkative with them.
And he or she will love you

2006-12-09 08:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Take one teaspoon human being and and half teaspoon love ,grind it then mix it and serve in a big bowl :-> .

2006-12-12 08:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by crazy suzy 2 · 0 0

the answer is sooo simple todays gurl needs money car and showoff things if u have money car and good money to spend on her then she will coem to u u dont need to go ..

2006-12-13 02:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by nashaahot 2 · 0 0

You got to be one to make one

2006-12-12 01:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sanjeev 2 · 0 0

i dont know i never try to make one just listen to your heart whatever your heart tells you just do the same

2006-12-09 08:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by i am not a lovely girl i am cute 4 · 0 0

First you love others... very soon you will be loved by others.

2006-12-12 08:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rohini karthikeyan 3 · 0 0

make a lover or make love...........lol

2006-12-12 04:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by mailtogentleman 1 · 0 0

if you come to know, please let me know. I am also looking for one.

2006-12-12 07:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by VIJAY 3 · 0 0

Making a lover? Love is a basic dimension of human experience that is variously conveyed as a sense of tender affection, an intense attraction, the foundation of intimacy and good interpersonal chemistry, willing self-sacrifice on behalf of another, and as an ineffable sense of affinity or connection to nature, other living beings, or even that which is unseen. It manifests itself in feelings, emotion, behavior, thoughts, perception and attitude. It influences, underlies and defines major patterns in interpersonal relationships and self-identification.

The diverse range of meanings associated with the English word contrasts with the plurality of Greek words for love, reflecting the depth, versatility, and complexity of the concept. This diversity of meanings is reflected in the many distinct classifications of love including romantic love; sexual desire; platonic love; religious love; familial love; true love; and the more casual application of the term to anything pleasurable, enjoyable, desirable, or preferred, including activities and favorite foods.

The concept of love is not amenable to one authoritative definition. It is the subject of considerable debate, enduring speculation, and thoughtful introspection. As an approximation, different aspects of love can be illustrated by comparing its corollaries and opposites. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less self-centered and more "mutual" sign of intense desire, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, although other connotations of love may be applied to close friendships as well.

In ordinary use, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf. narcissism).

The very existence of love is itself subject to debate. Some categorically reject the notion as false or meaningless. Others call it a recently-invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages, although this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry.[1] Others maintain that love really exists, and is not an abstraction, but is undefinable, being an essence which is spiritual or metaphysical in nature. Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self-esteem" to another. Others attempt to define love by applying the definition to everyday life.

Cultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish. Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etc. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. Love is essentially an abstract concept, easier to experience than to explain. Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All you need is love." Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative

Though love is considered a positive and desirable aspect of existence, love can cause a great deal of emotional harm. Consider Romeo and Juliet, Othello, Great Expectations, and other classical and popular works that enumerate how love can lead to tragedy and emotional pain. In human interactions, love becomes a peril when love is not bilateral, known as Unrequited love. A further peril for individuals that love, or can love others, is that love is not enduring and that many people have psychological defense mechanisms inhibit their ability to accept or reciprocate love.

People, throughout history, have often considered phenomena such as “love at first sight” or “instant friendships” to be the result of an uncontrollable force of attraction or affinity.[2] One of the first to theorize in this direction was the Greek philosopher Empedocles who in the fourth century BC argued for existence of two forces: love (philia) and strife (neikos), which were used to account for the causes of motion in the universe. These two forces were said to intermingle with the four elements, i.e. earth, water, air, and fire, in such a manner that love, so to say, served as the binding power linking the various parts of existence harmoniously together.

Later, Plato interpreted Empedocles’ two agents as attraction and repulsion, stating that their operation is conceived in an alternate sequence.[3] From these arguments, Plato originated the concept of “likes attract”, e.g. earth is thus attracted towards earth, water toward water, and fire toward fire. In modern terms this is often phrased in terms of “birds of a feather flock together”. Later, following developments in electrical theories, such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed such as "opposites attract." Over the last century, researcher on the nature of human mating, such as in evolutionary psychology, agree that pairs unite or attract to each other owing to a combination of opposites attract, e.g. people with dissimilar immune systems tend to attract, and likes attract, such similarities of personality, character, views, etc.[4] In recent years, various human bonding theories have been developed described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and or affinities

2006-12-09 08:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Nouhime 4 · 0 1

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