I am in love with a girl for four months. And I am sure that I am in love with her truly and intensely. And I cant imagine a life without her. I am dying without her. We met twice each other. And I proposed her through phone. When I was a friend she told me that I am very nice. But after proposing she told me that she hates me. I cant understan her. She is really a nice girl. She likes me a lot. But I dont know why she is avoiding me. And she is not love with any other guy also. I need her. I wanna marry her. Please just say me that what can I do or What can I say to get her love. How should I behave with her?
2006-12-08 23:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by Danndy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You sound creepy.
She is obviously overwhelmed, because you come on way too strong. I mean, come on, you proposed to her after 2 meetings? Chill out and try not to seem like a psycho, maybe then she'll come around again. Just don't stalk the girl. Give her more time, and MUCH less pressure.
2006-12-08 23:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
coming from a man now... it seems that you had so much from all the girls here.. but what they were saying are all true man.. I mean... you went TOO strong for her.. that shoulc not be... you're thinking is already so far and the girl and the relationship that you're having with her is just starting man.. you kinda messed up by taking things too fast! Try to take it easy.. take things slow... love is not at all close to being a fast call... but love is about freedom giving it you're all without expecting something in return.. as they say TRUE LOVE WAITS!!! no matter how long it may take!
2006-12-09 07:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Paul Anthony B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have probably cheeped her out. I know if I met a guy twice and he asked me to marry him I would avoid him permanently. You need to move on and learn that you need to get to know a women really, really well......usually accomplished by actually dating for a while before: (a) so you can be sure this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and (b) you ask a girl to marry you.
2006-12-09 07:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by BritLdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely went too fast in the relationship. I think you thought too much and too far about the relationship you have with that girl. It's like you expect her to keep up with your thoughts and day-dreaming about you 2. I think if you were to talk it out with her now, she may just keep pushing you away because that was so not a normal experience.
You say that she is not in love with another guy but perhaps she is INTERESTED in another guy. Meeting up twice does not mean you are officially an item. You and her are open to look around and date around (with other people!).
2006-12-09 09:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is not the type that want to fall in love at all. Still, u shudn't be disappointed much. Keep trying . But be sure you don't make her overwhelmed. Act as she wants you to act. Be nice to her and make her think that u have left your 'love' and try to be friends again. And then, u mark me, she'll surely like u more than she is liking u and she'll be the one to propose. Just wait patiently and have faith in God.... :-)
2006-12-09 07:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Swathi Rao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other girl u r more obsessed then inlove.. PROPOSED OVER THE PHONE??!! thats pathetic.
nowonder she hates u.
2006-12-09 07:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats messed up. Leave the poor girl alone, freak.
2006-12-09 07:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, Chill out. . .
Sounds like she's not really into you. Keep pushing and all you'll
do is what you have been doing, pushing her away!!
2006-12-09 07:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
attraction is not a choice. you are smothering her. get a hold of yourself and play it cool. if i could, id slap you a couple times through the face with something.
2006-12-09 07:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you weirdo. i agree with what everybody else said.
2006-12-09 07:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋