why would a married man get on the internet to talk to girls about having sex and meeting with them when i his wife and mother of his children would do and has done anything sexully he ask and i mean anything
2006-12-08 22:52:53 · 21 answers · asked by nicname 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do all men cheat no matter what is this just how it is
2006-12-08 23:08:18 · update #1
I dont cheat I have never cheated and I am 66 I love my wife and believe a successful marriage is bases on just the two of us just the two of us
2006-12-08 23:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you do everything he wants in bed, he has no good reason to do what he does. If you weren't putting out, you could see why he would do this but that is not the case. Confront the situation head on and be prepared to hear some bad things. If he is unwilling to deal with it, you may have to move on. My wife used to be sexually active when we first got together and I didn't think about hooking with any other woman. Now things are very cold in the bedroom and I find myself thinking about cheating.
You are doing every thing he wants sexually and he goes and does this. That makes me think he is turning into scum. The problem definitely is not you, it's him.
p.s.
All men do not cheat.
2006-12-09 17:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a married man. If a man's wife is giving him everything he wants sexually, emotionally, spiritually etc there is no reason to go outside the marriage. If a married man is getting everything he wants out of the marriage and he still goes outside the marriage to have sex he may be a sex addict.
2006-12-09 08:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because usually the wife is a control freak and could care less about what or how the man thinks..lack of communication in a marriage is alot more common than you think and sometimes the man just wants a temporary escape. women in general are very quick to put their values on a man and most of the time they dont apply.
2006-12-09 07:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys want variety no matter how hot the wife is.......others might have a wife that let herself go and is no longer pleasing to the eye so they're looking for satisfaction in a visual way as well.
it's sad, but happens more and more.....at least he's not after young boys like on Dateline NBC show. :O
2006-12-09 06:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sizzle Pizzle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, all men don't cheat but there are alot out ther that would or like to think they would. Sometimes its just about the "hunt" that excites guys. I think they enjoy trying the concept of conquering. But not all of us are like that....there are a few of us good ones left. The odd thing in your deal is that you seem to be agrewable to meeting his needs...so I must say he seems like a dumb ***!! Their really doesn't seem like he has reasons to look elsewhere so maybe its entirely about the hunt for him. Tough to say but regardless, he doesn't deserve a good wife, and he needs to remember that you are that and not everyone has a wife so willing to please. in'grate!!
Good luck
2006-12-09 11:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by faststang71 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, damn it, all men do not cheat. My lady and I have been together for 45 years and I would sooner take a knife to my {you know what) then put it to use with another woman. I'm sorry, but your husband is something less than a gentleman.
2006-12-09 07:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you need to ask him. Each individual has their own reasons, but it usually boils down to selfishness. He wants you and he wants to explore. He has not yet matured to the point of realizing this behavior can hurt his partner and his marriage. Married couples need to be able to talk about issues within thier marriages openly and safely. You two need to come to agreement about each ones responsibility to the safeguard of the marriage. You both took vows to love and cherrish till death do you part. The problem you described does not sound to me like vows being honored.
2006-12-09 07:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by MeToo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Variety is the spice of life! You wouldn't drive the same car for the rest of your life would you? You don't wear the same clothes every day, why expect to sleep with the same person for the rest of your life?
2006-12-09 09:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by john j 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what is ( cheating ) ? it is not that thing for every one .. it has to have common agreement on what does it mean!!!
but you are right asking this way ; the one who behaves this way mustn't ask any others about their behaviors ..
2006-12-09 07:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋