Shes my best friend and getting married in April. how do i tell her I love her?
2006-12-08 22:45:20 · 17 answers · asked by Peter L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't. Keep it to yourself. If she is getting married you don't want to confuse her. If she is unsure she will let you know.
xxB
2006-12-08 22:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well frnd.You can try out this.You first ask her how she is feeling abt getting married.Then start giving her good copliments and tell & tell her anyone getting married 2 her will b the luckiest person in the world.Then tell that even u love her and want 2 get married 2 her.Observe her reaction.If she asks u r serious or not tell her yes.I think this can do some work.BEST OF LUCK BUDDY.
2006-12-08 22:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rohit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of love do you have for her? Is it "best friend" love or "I want to get married" love?
If it is "best friend" love, then you can let her know anytime by just being there.
If it is "I want to get married" love, then you have to let it go, because her best friend is (of should be) her husband.
You may have let yourself become too involved given her signals to you. The decision to get married doesn't happen overnight (usually).
It is very difficult for married couples to have friends of the opposite sex that are too close. You may have to find a new best friend.
Don't worry; lots of fish in the sea, mate!
2006-12-08 22:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by SolarFanatic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa....i don't know what to say about that one...
if you tell her, it might change her mind about the man she's going to marry and she MIGHT just MIGHT come to you. the best thing would be that she doesn't mind and she still wants to marry the guy she was planning on marrying. unless if you want her to leave him and come to you? or do you just want to tell her to get it out of your system before she says "i do"?
if you don't tell her, you have to carry it around with your for the rest of the time you know each other....
it's your decision, but honestly, i don't know what I'd do in your spot. good luck!
2006-12-08 22:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all really think of what your doing. Do you love her that much that your willing to risk her friendship and her future with her fiance. Well if you really think you two would have a chance then I suggest just saying whats in your heart. If she truely is your best friend then you will know her best and what to say.
2006-12-08 22:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was a story i read where this guy told the girl like 20 years later how he felt....she actually said if she knew that she would have probably dumped the guy and went to him.......it was like in Ann Landers or something.......she told her that people should always lay there feelings out there because otherwise they'll never know.
of course, if she did dump him you better be willing to go the distance.....or you'll lose a friend too
2006-12-08 22:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sizzle Pizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is still 5 months for u to express you love her,
but u got to make sure that u really love her, u want to be with her always. But you have to make sure that she feels the same or else will kill friendship.
do u guys feel happiness when u get together?
2006-12-09 00:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by kyles GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea how she feels about you ? Are you just a very close friend to her ? Careful how you go. You could cause major upset.
2006-12-08 22:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know. As a man who lost oone him self do it. If she feels the ay you do than good. Before this happens let her know
2006-12-08 22:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by Bad for Good! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell as soon as possible, not at the last moment because if you don't your gonna always wonder what if.
2006-12-09 06:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by terrianna101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋