so i ahve this guy freind that likes me alot but i dont like him what do i do i really need help cuz i like him as a freind but i dont like him in that way and i dont wanna beak his heart but i dont wanna be with him what do i do
2006-12-08 21:43:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You need to tell him that you value his friendship .... but your feeling don't go to the level that his do ... It's best to tell him this way and at least he'll know you still like him (as a friend) ... and if he is the friend you hope he is ... he'll understand ... he might not be able to stop loving you ... but he should be more understanding towards you
Good Luck :)
2006-12-08 21:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be polite to him but don't lead him on. If he doesn't get the hint then talk to him about it, and make sure he knows you like him as a friend but you don't want him as a boyfriend. Sometimes it helps to use other reasons such as you need to focus on school right now or you are not ready to date.
2006-12-08 23:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly have to be honest with the guy... all in all if he is truly your friend he will always be your friend even when you tell him and if not... then look for what's around the corner:)
2006-12-08 21:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just be honest...cos it will break his heart even more if you go out with him then he finds out you only see him as a friend
2006-12-08 21:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel.
Be honest in the long run it will be the best thing to do.
Have a great Day!!!!
2006-12-08 21:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel dont lead him on if hes a good friend he will understand
2006-12-08 21:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by rocknrandy77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being honest is the best thing to do.
2006-12-08 21:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Luis D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel.
Tell him that you wouldnt want to ruin such a good friendship.
2006-12-09 07:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty
2006-12-08 22:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by roncho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, exactly what you told us!!!
2006-12-08 22:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by anney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋