I broke with my girlfriend - with my first girlfriend.
No, I'm not dead, but trying to live and get over it. I'm flirting again with other girls, but I simply can't forget her a single day.
I remember her face in my mind; I listen to her voice to me in my head; I can almost feel her lips...
I see her in everything!!
When I go to the park we used to, I feel like crying, screaming... Don't things much worse...
And I know that there is no way we can get together again...
And I know I can't say this to anyone. We men are supposed to be strong, aren't we? Oh, and how pathetic would it look like!
..
If I could just... hug her with my soul, perhaps my emptiness would fade away... at least for a second...
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I don't know what to do... I don't know what to think... I just hate to feel.
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2006-12-08 19:49:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're going through a grieving process which is perfectly normal when we lose someone from our lives. It doesn't have to be in death either. Start with the knowledge that what you're feeling is normal. Next, try not to make her this perfect image in your mind, while conveniently forgetting all of her imperfections, which made you break up with her in the first place.
There are lots of good women out there, but first try being on your own for a while and cultivate interests and friends and a support system of your own. Take up a sport or activity or take a course to get your mind off of the loss and onto living in the now.
Talking to a counsellor might help also.
2006-12-08 19:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why can't you let go this relationship. Think of every reason that comes through your mind,no censorship. Losing a relationship is like when death comes,a period of mourning follows. And us,men,are allowed to cry too,after all,it's part of human nature,so if you feel like crying,then it's what you should do. When you can't get through with it,go to a psichotherapyst,it's amazing what this people can do.
2006-12-09 05:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by valentin79ro 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And you broke up why...anyway, it's part of what happens when you lose someone-it will take some time and for you to get involved elsewhere and the wounds will slowly heal.
2006-12-09 03:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We all go through this at one point or another in our lifetime. Time heals all wounds. It's true, you may still think about her but the pain will subside in time.
2006-12-09 03:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rexi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you need to look for a nother girl and if you cant you will always have your ex to fall back on.
I know one day you will find your one and only yes you may think you can never forget her see I'm looking for my first love you know the saying if you love someone let her go but if she loves you she will come back to you..
2006-12-09 04:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋