on your first date, but he refused to and said i want to wait it out becuase i really wanna get to know you better, and i dont want you to think i just want to have sex with you and thats it i really want it to mean something... would you believe him, or would you think he was loser and just dump him right there?
2006-12-08 19:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Any woman wants to have sex with me is going to have sex! Right then and right there!
If I say no, like it would ever happen, I better have one Hell of a good reason and "I want to get to know you better" is not a good reason.
2006-12-08 19:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would not go out with a guy for the sole purpose of sleeping with him on a first date. I think sleeping with someone should be meaningful. However if I a guy should agree to know me before engaging in a sexual relationship with me, I would value such decision and would even view it as a compliment. If a person cares enough to want to know me then he must want to have a serious relationship with me. When a guy sleeps with a woman on a first date, he usually loses interest in pursuing a serious relationship with her. In fact, they seldom call her back unless they want some more.
I would not think that he was a loser, au contraire, I would probably want to see him again, because he's a gentleman. It means a lot when a guy is able to treat a woman with respect and dignity. If she wants you only for the sex then that's a different story.
2006-12-09 05:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by lili dauphin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes in the heat of Passion things happen..
I have been there and sometimes it is better to wait.
2006-12-09 06:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Hottie With The Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...I guess it would depend on what his body language was like when he said it and if we had a connection on the rest of the date.
2006-12-09 03:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be touched and embarrased. I'd think it was sweet. That's how I feel about that sort of thing.
2006-12-09 08:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because i wouldn't want to have sex with him. i would have the same opinion.
2006-12-09 03:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋