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Need more information-what is YOUR way of life-what does it consist of? To respond to your question we need to know what you are changing from? Add more details please

2006-12-08 19:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0 0

Regardless of what your way of life is, you change your lifestyle by (1) adopting new practices or modifying the practices of your undesired lifestyle, and (2) changing your values such that you no longer express attitudes reflective of your undesired lifestyle nor have dispositions which are conducive to practicing your undesired lifestyle.

Sometimes (2) is achieved by means of (1), sometimes vice-versa. But no doubt you'll have to do both. (2) is extremely difficult because we just cant simply choose, by an act of the will, to no longer value or be disposed to do or believe something, especially something we desire. So, unless you are fully fed up with and disgusted by your lifestyle, or even fully apathetic towards it, you'll have a hard time changing your values. So, that is why, for instance, both Aristotle and Confucius, as well as Pascal, advocated (1) as the primary means for obtaining (2).

See The Nicomacean Ethics, by Aristotle; The Analects, by Confucius; and Pensees, by Blaise Pascal.

2006-12-08 19:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by lovetheshwee 1 · 1 0

People look for a change when
1. Results do not meet your expectations.
2. Validation of a result becomes difficult.

Working from the back, you would first need to realise the events that make you Happy and not the one that brings you Joy (Joy is momentary and shortlived). To help you identify the ones that bring you happiness, a simple check with your conscious would help. You would realise that anything done with a moral value attached to the outcome is worth doing. Pursue your own interest with a moral reasoning and you would find the change you seek, the secrect to a good sleep and the reason to wake up the next day.

2006-12-08 20:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by chaosguy83 1 · 0 1

The only way to change your life circumstances is to change your way of thinking. Read the little book; "As a man thinketh". by James Allen. Establish a relationship with God for true happiness. Start by reading www.stephen-knapp/articles_to_read

2006-12-08 21:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Weldon 5 · 0 0

First I would ask how long have you been tired of the life you live now. because most success stories begin the day you walk out the door and leave a loosing life style behind, don't forget to take family and pet's you will not want to leave them behind. lol

2006-12-09 01:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It feels like she is utilising you as an anchor. somebody good amidst all the chaos. So i don't understand how she would be in a position to react in case you come to a call to grow to be a celebration guy or woman. it could make your relationship greater advantageous or on the different hand not. besides, you have the dazzling to celebration slightly and spot in case you like it. that is going to possibly not be as lots relaxing as you think of. purely be risk-free and do slightly study in the previous taking any drugs. Get your heart checked additionally.

2016-10-18 00:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by kigar 4 · 0 0

Everyone's tired of his/her life once in awhile, it's normal for people everywhere. According to a quote, "Variety is the spice of life" (I'm sorry I can't consult the book with this quote, I'd add it later), we need to plan for some new, various ways of doing things which interest you. As for me, I vary my interests from reading to preparing my teaching plan, then to correct/mark the students' reports/papers, then to go out shopping for some favorite books, then to visit a good coffee shop, then to go out walking/jogging, etc.
So, like a famed logo states simply, "Just do it."

2006-12-08 21:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Arigato ne 5 · 0 0

well first ...u have to find of what u want to change in your life and go after it...u have to have the motivation take hold of and have a positive outlook on your life...do u have any goals in your life if not ...make some and try to build on that...plus u have to have self - esteem ...the will to do better in life...it isn't easy...but if u keep trying and stay on the right track of things it will get easier for u....ill be praying for u....and main thing ASK God to give u wisdom and guidance ...for your life...god bless

2006-12-08 19:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by kal-el 1 · 1 0

Which ever way your lifestyle is taking now to change it you have to go in the opposite way. that will make the difference you are seeking.

2006-12-08 23:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by aiddogs5 4 · 0 1

These days our life depends a lot on the work we do.... apart from sleep, we spend 90% of available time at our workplace or commuting.

I think change of job at another city could do the trick of bringing new enthusiasm into your life.

All the best!!

2006-12-08 19:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by small 7 · 1 1

in order to change your life style, you must change your thinking first. you may even need to change friends. develop new hobbies, try new things, make a life's to do list of everything you've wanted to do but haven't, then get to it!

2006-12-08 19:57:30 · answer #11 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0 0

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