2006-12-08 19:03:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
first..I think it's the media making women think we should be rail thin.
And second i think it's our own minds always worrying about how other people see us..
I don't think it's the men that make us feel that way..I think women compete with each other in their own minds. Most men don't want someone that is to skinny!
We all should eat properly and exercise daily and then we wouldn't feel so bad about our weight..
I used to worry about my weight all the time..and now that I have gotten older I don't worry so much about the vanity part of it..I worry more about my health..so in turn I work out and try to eat right.. and that is all I can do!
We as women are harder on ourselves than anyone else could ever be!
2006-12-08 19:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a fat person, to many, it is like having a gross disease.
So because of the media, and others prejudice, it is hard just to be your self, and be proud of who you are.
It is hard to be happy in a world where slim is in.
For me, I think that all shapes and sizes is what makes this world beautiful. We all should be proud of who we are, and not let others opinions bring us down. No one has a perfect body or face. Everyone has something or other, they would like to fix or change. We all know that to be true, because of all the money spent on body fixer upper products each year. Women are made with more sensitivity then men, so this subject, as well as others, can affect us alot more. Men as well as women should not judge others by the outward appearance, but by the person inside. God only judges us by the inner person we are. I am glad for that.
2006-12-09 03:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, the media have in our minds that women should be stick thin, after all; all the models are super skinny, and probably anorexic. We watch t.v. and look at magazines and think to ourselfs "Gosh, that women is sooo beautiful, I'm soo fat, I want to look just like her." and because of the media most men want stick thin girls, so that makes women strive even more to be skinny, till guys will think they're hott.
When all we need to do is turn off the t.v's, stop reading magazines, and take some time to realize that it's how beautiful we are on the inside that really matters. Not how we look on the outside. It doesn't matter how "fat" you are, so stop starving yourself to look good, people THAT skinny do NOT look good, they look like they're on their death bed, reality check.... your beauty is on the inside, not out.
2006-12-09 03:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by StarChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MANY MANY years... ago.... a voluptuous women used to be considered sexy...people should really work on the inside rather than the outside.... of course take pride in your appearance...but HEAVY people have feelings too... so don't pay it any mind...
i myself in the past was CRITIZED for being too thin.... can't ever win.... so just be happy with who you are and accept people for who they are also...
2006-12-09 03:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys think that the images they see in movies/magazines/etc are true and best. Take Paris Hilton, if I had her in a room and I could do anything I wanted to her,..I wouldn't have sex with her (eeewwww!!), I wouldn't want to talk to her(how many ways can you say "Huh?") I would FEED her!
2006-12-09 03:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sartoris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz its us women who always worry abt anything & everything while men live in cars, electronic gadgets, sports, news & food..
& d neverending quest of women is 2 lose weight but most of us r not willing 2 stop eating chocolates or junkies...
2006-12-09 03:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we men like to see you in good shape. Would you like men with potbelly?
2006-12-09 03:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by fitasfiddle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
typical importance placed on external appearances...theres a health issue there also....
2006-12-09 03:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's what our culture is into right now.
2006-12-09 03:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are ignorant and they can never learn to accept a lady for who she is.. We accept fat men for who they are.. but.. who knows men are evil/
2006-12-09 03:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by tearzofaprincess 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋