Is my ex the father of my unborn child?

Question

My ex and i broke up october 3th, we had intercorse september 30.On the 5th and 6th of september i had intercorse with my first. In the middle of the month i noticed my breast started hurting, then i didnt get my period for the month of october. So i took a test and found out i was four weeks and preganant. I resently had an ultra sound on dec 7 which indicated that i was nine weeks and three days preganant. I would really like to know whos the father of my unborn child...

Answer 1

try this calculator it can tell you the date of when your baby was concieved maybe that would be of some help?

http://healthlink.mcw.edu/article/923526833.html

Answer 2

Well if you slept with your ex at the end of september and didn't get your period all of october, and then found out you were four weeks pregnant at the end of october, it sounds like it would probably be your ex???? Also, if you were nine weeks pregnant on the 7th of december that shows that you would have had to have fallen pregnant sometime in october, also indicating that your ex is the most likely person. It all depends however on when you were due for your period etc.

Anyway, this is not the sort of question to ask on here, as we can't perform DNA tests etc, and unfortunately thats the only way you are going to be sure of who the father is.

Answer 3

I think that at about 12-14 weeks you can have an amnioscentesis test (DNA sample of the fetus) to determine the father. Of course this test runs risks but it will be effective if you have to know right away. If that is not an option then you just have to wait. But personally I have to tell you that you really nee to grow up and be commited to one person before you bring a child into the world.

Answer 4

i would most likely sat tour ex.if icalculated right there are 31 dats in oct. 30days in nov which gives you a total of 61days then if you add the rest of the days indec.until you found out how far you were that would be another 7 days. a total of 68 days. take 7 (days in the week) times10 (since you are almost 10 weeks) and that gives you 70. pretty close huh. so i would say im almost positive your EX is the one

Answer 5

I'd say it was the ex, although it's pretty close. Unfortunately, to be sure, you'll need to wait til the baby is born and have your ex get a DNA test done.

Please don't just pick your fav of the guys! ;)

My son broke up with his gf cuz he caught her with one of his 'friends', and 8 wks later, here she comes, telling my son he's the daddy. He couldn't be sure cuz of the other guy. She told all her friends that she wanted my son to be the daddy cuz he was the best looking, and the nicest of the two guys. ?? We had to wait til the baby was born, had the DNA test, and it turned out that yep my son was the daddy. I am the proud grandma of a beautiful 3 year old girl. ;)

Sure wouldn't have been fair to my son had she simply picked him to be the daddy cuz she wanted him to be. DNA.. That's the way to find out for sure.

Answer 6

pick the one you like and lie as much as you need to, A father is the man who raises a child. They may catch you w/ DNA but I think if you play you pay. The dance of life has been going on awhile. Find the one who loves you enough to help you.

Answer 7

Too close to tell.... you will have to wait 9 months for baby to come for a dna test

Answer 8

You may have to wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test because it could be either one of them.

Answer 9

well sweetie i would love to tell you but i think you ahev to wait until the baby is born to have a dna test to be positive who it is

Answer 10

do a dna test